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Funeral words

reflection of grief and pain of loss

The death of loved ones, relatives, and friends is always a sad and tragic event in the life of every person. At such moments it can be difficult to find the right words to express all the sorrow and pain. How can you say that the deceased was dear? That he was the most wonderful person? State it clearly and clearly best qualities and not to go too far? A funeral speech at a funeral is a text that is pronounced not from a piece of paper, but from the heart.

Funeral speech - sample

First you need to say your name. Not everyone present at a funeral or wake knows you. It should be remembered that long, vague, expansive phrases are suitable for political debates, but not for funeral speeches. You should speak briefly and to the point. So, examples of speech at a wake:

“I’ll introduce myself for those who don’t know me: my name is (name). We have worked together with (name of deceased) for the past few years and I would like to say a few words in memory of him.

He was a true professional in his field, a Specialist with a capital S. Many of our colleagues, young and not only, learned the basics of their craft from him and often used his advice and help. He was very patient and responsive, he could always listen to everyone who turned to him for support, advise something, help out, and never refused anyone’s requests. He could perfectly lift the spirits of anyone who was upset, confused or depressed about something. The countless funny stories, toasts, jokes and anecdotes he told could amuse anyone. We will all greatly miss him at our dinner gatherings and corporate events, where he invariably shone at the table, lifting our morale. There is no other person like him in our team. And maybe in my memory it will no longer be

We will all miss him greatly. Until the end of his life, he will remain in my memory and the memory of all our colleagues as an example of perseverance, sparkling cheerfulness, activity and professionalism!

Rest in peace, dear colleague!”

“My grandmother was a wonderful person with a difficult but interesting fate. Her along with three younger brothers and her sister, her mother raised her alone in difficult post-war years. To say that they lived poorly then would be an understatement. She had to endure many difficulties and hardships, but she never lost her optimism and presence of mind, constantly helping her mother and taking care of the younger members of the family. And later, having married her military grandfather, she steadfastly endured all the hardships of service. In any circumstances, she always maintained exemplary order at home and taught all family members to do so. Grandma was sometimes strict, but fair. I am glad that I managed to learn from her neatness and order, the ability to organize my life. And her famous apple pies were simply incomparable, no one else could do them!

I will always remember you, my dear, beloved grandmother! Your warmth, love and care will remain with us forever."

How to choose the right words?

Based on the examples presented above, several basic rules can be identified:

• It is best to address the audience in the introduction. For example: “Dear friends and family of our beloved (name) ....”
• It is necessary to introduce yourself. What does it have to do with not only the name, but also the degree of your acquaintance, relationship: “My name is Alexey, (name) and I have been close friends (colleagues) for many (you can be more specific) years.”
• It would not be amiss to say a few words about your own experiences, about the pain that the announcement of death caused.
• The following words characterize the deceased. Here it is important to remember the old Russian proverb, which perfectly indicates what they say at funerals: “It’s either good or nothing about the dead.”
• In conclusion, condolences or standard, but still relevant memorial words are said: “May he rest in peace,” “Rest in peace,” and so on.

In general, we note that the speech at the wake differs from the one pronounced directly at the funeral. So, at the moment of farewell it is customary to speak very briefly. Here, words of condolences are mainly spoken to the relatives of the deceased.

The funeral speech on the day of the funeral should under no circumstances be a memorized text. A few words from the heart, imbued with sincere empathy, would be more appropriate. In the first days, the relatives of the deceased are unable to perceive reality. The grief they have suffered is too hard for them, so their feelings should be respected.

Memorial words for 40 days, for an anniversary can be more intense. Here they often remember the best about the deceased. But even after time, one should not remember insults, disagreements and quarrels. If you can’t overcome this in yourself, the best thing to do is to remain silent or limit yourself to a couple of standard phrases.

Funeral poems

It was already indicated above that poetry would be extremely inappropriate at a funeral. A memorial speech for 40 days, 1 year may contain a small poetic inclusion. These could be the words of great poets or lines from an epitaph. Memorial poems for the anniversary of death mostly contain warm words that can be attributed to the personality of the deceased, and to a lesser extent condolences and bitterness. Examples include:

When parents leave
The light in the window fades forever.
Father's house is empty and maybe
I dream much more often.
* * *
We know you can't be brought back
To your affairs - everlasting memory,
And only your pure soul is with us,
You illuminate our life path.

* * *
Sleep, my angel, peacefully and sweetly.
Eternity will take you into its arms.
You held yourself with dignity and steadfastness
Survived these hellish torments.
* * *
On this day full of heartache,
We sympathize with your misfortune,
Our life, unfortunately, is not eternal,
Every day we are getting closer to the line...
Our condolences... Strength of spirit
We wish you at this moment,
May the earth rest in peace to those close to you,
May the Almighty protect you from troubles.
* * *
When you left, the light went dark,
And time suddenly stopped.
And they wanted to live together forever...
Well, why did this all happen?!
* * *
May your sleep be serene
No one will ever disturb you,
Nothing can break it
Oblivion of eternal peace.
* * *
Thank you, dear, for being in the world!
Thank you for loving me.
For all the years that we lived together.
I ask you not to forget me.
* * *
We remember, dear, and mourn,
The wind blows coldly on my heart.
We love you forever,
No one will replace you for us.
* * *
How we loved - only the Gods know.
Only we knew how we suffered.
After all, we went through all the hardships with you,
But we could not step over death...
* * *
In this vicious circle - no matter what -
It will not be possible to find the end and the beginning.
Our role in this world is to come and go.
Who will tell us about the goal, about the meaning of the path?

* * *
There are no, Lord, sins and atrocities
Above Thy mercy!
Slave/slave of the earth and vain desires
Forgive the sins for his/her sorrows!

What was his life like? - Heavy sleep.
What is death? - Awakening from terrible dreams.
Woke up, he smiled -
And again, maybe the dream began there.
* * *
You left and it immediately began to snow.
May you have a good time there.
Let him cover himself with a soft white blanket
The land where you are no longer there...
* * *
Without chasing meaningless fame,
Keeping love in your heart,
He left, but managed to leave us
Eternal music bright motive
* * *
This order is unshakable.
The passage of time is eternal.
Let it be quiet and sweet
Your peaceful sleep!

Funeral poems are published in the newspaper as condolences. Words at the wake should not contain ambiguous phrases. Extremely clear and understandable lines for all those present will be the most appropriate and correct.

Funeral toasts

The funeral usually ends with a memorial dinner. While at such a table, you must follow the rules of mourning etiquette. It is not allowed to talk loudly or laugh. You should not interrupt the person making a speech at the wake. Often at the table, speech takes the form of a toast. Funeral toasts at a wake are significantly different from ordinary ones. They do not contain a call for fun, but Once again emphasize the bitterness and pain of loss.

They sit in the next world, in Paradise, souls at the table, talking, drinking, pouring more. One overturned his jug, but it was empty. “That’s it,” he said, “I’ve been forgotten on Earth.” So let’s drink so that the jugs of our departed loved ones do not become empty!

Blessed memory of those who have left us, Let us drink to this now. May our hearts, like granite, preserve the memory of loved ones who have passed away. Let all the good things that happened to them not be buried in a damp grave. As long as we preserve our memories, they will live with us for as long.

Toasts at a wake can be pronounced in poetic form:

The philosopher knew that everything has its time,
Fate cannot be deceived:
The poet has been lonely for centuries -
May the glorious one be completed...

There is no water in the funeral cup!
Let's not grieve:
The midnight star will rise -
We will meet again!

Let it pour from the righteous peaks,
Before the days are gone,
The melody of your soul -
Why be sad about her?

Christian wake

One of the most widespread religions is Orthodoxy. Orthodox funerals differ significantly from secular ones. So, for example, speeches at funerals are practically not spoken for 40 days, 1 year. Christians gather at the table these days and pray together for the soul of the deceased. It is also customary these days to go to church and submit memorial notes, a sample of which can be seen in the church shop.

Funeral poems and words for a woman, mother, sister, grandmother, mournful words in verse from family and friends

Without saying goodbye to anyone, without saying goodbye to everyone, you disappeared into the darkness, only leaving sadness. The pain burns, the soul hurts, a tear rolls from grief. You left us very early, we could not save You, a deep wound in our hearts, while we are alive, You are alive too. Eternal peace for your soul and the Kingdom of Heaven. Swan down to you, earth.

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Words cannot express our pain and grief, a deep wound in our hearts. We will never forget that terrible day that brought us so much grief and sadness. Tears tear our souls apart, and every day we remember You. May it be easy for You there, and may the memory of You remain here with us. In sorrow we bow our heads at Your grave. Sleep well, our dear mother. The earth is swan down for you, and the Kingdom of Heaven is for your soul.

You have gone into bright eternity. And our pain cannot be helped, and the name of pain is infinity... You left us for another WORLD - where there is no return, leaving behind the memory of yourself, love, sadness and the pain of loss. The Lord called you to himself and left us with sadness and tears. You will reign in Heaven, and we will carry roses to the grave. May God protect your kind soul. May you rest in peace, and your soul - eternal peace and the Kingdom of Heaven.

Words cannot express our pain and grief, a deep wound in our hearts. We will never forget that terrible day that brought us so much grief and sadness. Tears tear our souls apart, and every day we remember You. May it be easy for You there, and may the memory of You remain here with us. In sorrow we bow our heads at Your grave. Sleep well, our dear mother. The earth is swan down for you, and the Kingdom of Heaven is for your soul.

That day when the light of Your eyes faded and your heart stopped beating became the most terrible day for us and we could not come to terms with it. A tear rolls from the heart, pain burns, the soul cries. We so want to bring you back, but this cannot be done. You left us very early, but we could not save you. A deep wound in the heart. You left us and left us with pain and sadness. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear. Kingdom of Heaven, may you rest in peace on earth, remember with us all who remember it.

You left only your body.
That earthly thing that I always had.
Someone will say: “No, you’re dead!”
You earthly ones have just finished your work.

You have now completed the circle of life.
Someone will say: “That was not enough!”
There is never enough in the universe!
You exist, then suddenly you are gone.

But everyone has their own task.
Only this way and no other way!
The circle of this life has ended.
You didn’t leave quickly or suddenly!

You lived my dear Sveta.
Like a comet bright in the sky.
Lighting the path of life for others,
and now I decided to rest.

From the day when the light of Your eyes faded and your heart stopped beating, it became the most terrible day for us and we could not come to terms with it. A tear rolls from the heart, pain burns, the soul cries. We so want to bring you back, but this cannot be done. You left us very early, but we could not save you. A deep wound in the heart. You left us and left us with pain and sadness. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear. Kingdom of Heaven, may you rest in peace on earth, remember with us all who remember it.

Ask for forgiveness, sister,
It's hard for me in front of you.
But I ask: be so kind
With forgiveness, wash away the mourning from your heart.
I promise to be there for you
Attentive and delicate,
So that the hand is in the hand again,
Thoughts sounded in one beat.

Sister! Sorry for the bun you ate!
Besides, only a part was bitten off...
Whoever carries a bun in his heart has
You can't steal the buns!!!
I repent... I'm in tears of shame down the alley
wandering, lost, exposing my mouth to the rain...

Today is Forgiveness Sunday,
A great reason to ask for forgiveness,
For all the insults inflicted not out of malice,
Don't hold a grudge against me, sister.
Let all sorrows melt away like spring water,
May you be lucky in everything, always,
Let joy walk side by side,
Let all grievances forget you. ©

Dear sister, forgive me for everything,
And don't hold grudges anymore,
Forgiveness Sunday has come to us,
It gave me a chance to atone.
Let all misunderstandings be forgotten,
May your dreams certainly come true,
May happiness always smile at you,
May the good angel protect you. ©

My dear sister!
Forgive from the heart and soul.
Let the winged bird offend
It will fly away from you forever.

I beg you, there is no need to sulk,
After all, what was between us is gone,
Let's remember the responsiveness of views,
Let's forget disagreements like a dream.

Forgive me if I offended you
Regardless of your opinion,
Why didn't I try to understand you?
And she always stood her ground.

I want them to forget all this
They let me go out of a pure soul.
There are no secrets between relatives,
So let's live like this too!

As a brother, I apologize to my sister!
And I want to forgive her myself, of course!
You and I are both wise now,
Let's forgive each other sincerely!

We forgive you for everything that happened and passed!
For everything we have done to offend each other...
Today is the time to forgive
And this is only the merit of the holiday!

Forgiveness Sunday all around
Moved to ask for forgiveness...
Come on and we will forgive each other suddenly,
May our souls be in rapture!

Sister, please forgive me.
And right this Sunday
Let go of your grievances
And along with them - sadness and doubts!

And let them come to you again
Little sister, they will not return to life,
Just to make her shine with joy,
You should smile with happiness!

May the holy day give
It's a miracle for you to transform,
Forgive everyone, sister, insults
On the holiday of peace and forgiveness.

On me, my dear,
Don't hold a grudge either,
Because I love you very much,
I repent today from the bottom of my heart.

Funeral poems and words for a woman, mother, sister, grandmother, mournful words in verse from family and friends That day when the light of Your eyes faded and your heart stopped beating became the most terrible day for us and we could not come to terms with it. A tear rolls from the heart, pain burns, the soul cries. We so want to bring you back, but this cannot be done. You left us very early, but we could not save you. A deep wound in the heart. You left us and left us with pain and sadness. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear. Kingdom of Heaven, may you rest in peace on earth, remember with us all who remember it. Without saying goodbye to anyone, without saying goodbye to everyone, you disappeared into the darkness, only leaving sadness. The pain burns, the soul hurts, a tear rolls from grief. You left us very early, we could not save You, a deep wound in our hearts, while we are alive, You are alive too. Eternal peace for your soul and the Kingdom of Heaven. Swan down to you, earth. Words cannot express our pain and grief, a deep wound in our hearts. We will never forget that terrible day that brought us so much grief and sadness. Tears tear our souls apart, and every day we remember You. May it be easy for You there, and may the memory of You remain here with us. In sorrow we bow our heads at Your grave. Sleep well, our dear mother. The earth is swan down for you, and the Kingdom of Heaven is for your soul. You have gone into bright eternity. And our pain cannot be helped, and the name of pain is infinity... You left us for another WORLD - where there is no return, leaving behind the memory of yourself, love, sadness and the pain of loss. The Lord called You to Himself and left us sorrow and tears. You reign in Heaven, and we carry roses to the grave. May God protect your kind soul. May you rest in peace, and your soul - eternal peace and the Kingdom of Heaven. Words cannot express our pain and grief, a deep wound in our hearts. We will never forget that terrible day that brought us so much grief and sadness. Tears tear our souls apart, and every day we remember You. May it be easy for You there, and may the memory of You remain here with us. In sorrow we bow our heads at Your grave. Sleep well, our dear wife and mother. The earth is swan down for you, and the Kingdom of Heaven is for your soul. That day when the light of Your eyes faded and your heart stopped beating became the most terrible day for us and we could not come to terms with it. A tear rolls from the heart, pain burns, the soul cries. We so want to bring you back, but this cannot be done. You left us very early, but we could not save you. A deep wound in the heart. You left us and left us with pain and sadness. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear. Kingdom of Heaven, may you rest in peace on earth, remember with us all who remember it. With illness and pain, people fade And dry up like beloved flowers... Like snow in the hot sun they melt, Today I am, and tomorrow maybe you... How sad and sad we are to lose loved ones, Kindred in spirit, close, dear, Familiar, undervalued, vulnerable , With whom we shared life for two... In the spring, beloved flowers leave in bloom... And warm summer- like healthy grain... They are found in the fall with ripe fruits... Winter sinks the bottom of their lives... We know that parting will not last long, But for some reason our grief cannot be appeased... It will be a long time to pray for our loved ones, And only God's grace consoles us... What a pity, that we didn’t appreciate the departed, What a pity that we didn’t lay flowers for them, didn’t sing holy, heavenly songs to them, didn’t make their beautiful dreams come true... Oh, how we miss the departed now! Oh, how deep is the pain of their loss! Our heart languishes from sorrow, And tears flow like a river... You can console your soul with tears, But you still can’t bring back those who have left! To grieve immeasurably means to amuse the demon, And not to grieve means not to value the loss at a penny! And he remains, squeezing his pain with his teeth, At night, squeezing out a cry of grief, Seeming to be quiet and calm days, Putting on a wig of decency on the bareness of grief... And moving away from grief little by little, Humbling before the fate of the Creator... Surrendering everything with oneself to God, Asking for a blessed end ...

Seeing your sister in a dream means unforeseen difficulties, troubles and worries. If in a dream you and your sister quarrel, this foreshadows the collapse of all hopes for the future, an unrealistic promise. If you dream that you are saying goodbye to your sister, this means that a period is coming in your life when you can rely solely on your own strengths, without expecting outside help. A dream in which you see your sister dying promises a deterioration in your financial situation.

If you see your half-sister in a dream, this means that a period is coming in your life when everyone has a desire to advise you and take an interest in your affairs, and actively interfere in your affairs.

By the way, the famous archaeologist G. Gilprecht for a long time could not read the scattered ancient Sumerian text on two fragments of agate found during excavations. This find was mentioned in the book he had just written and which he was supposed to take to the publisher the next day. However, without deciphering the ancient Sumerian inscription, the text of the book turned out to be incomplete. Therefore, Gilprecht sat in his office until late the day before, unsuccessfully sorting through and comparing various versions of translations of this inscription. The archaeologist did not notice how he dozed off in his chair. In a dream, he saw a middle-aged man wearing ancient Sumerian priestly robes standing next to him. At the sight of this man, Gilprecht was surprised and hastily stood up, but not from the chair, but from some stone step on which he found himself sitting.

The man ordered the archaeologist to follow him, promising to help him. Although the stranger spoke not at all in the ancient Sumerian dialect, but in English, this did not surprise the sleeping Gilprecht at all. The scientist and the priest walked for a short time along a deserted street and passed several huge buildings located quite close to each other. Gilprecht and his strange companion entered one of these massive houses, which seemed larger than the others. They found themselves in some kind of hall with dim lighting. When Gilprecht asked where they were, the guide replied that they were in Nipur, between the Tigris and Euphrates, in the temple of Bel, the father of the gods.

The archaeologist knew about this temple. During the excavations, it was not possible to find the treasury - a room that, as scientists knew, was located at the temple. When the scientist turned to his guide with a similar question, he silently took him to a small room in the depths of the temple. In this room, in a wooden chest, there were several pieces of agate, among which were the two pieces found during the excavations. The priest said that these pieces were parts of a cylinder donated by the temple manager Kurigalzu. The cylinder was sawn to make ear ornaments for a statue of a god, and one piece split. On it were those inscriptions that were part of the whole text. At the request of the archaeologist, the priest read this text, dating back to 1300 BC. e. Gilprecht, who woke up, wrote down his dream and the exact transcript of the text.

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Dream Interpretation - Sister

To meet your sister is to feel someone’s care or to find yourself in circumstances from which only family ties with someone can help you get out of them safely.

If your sister will get married in a dream.

Perhaps even yourself.

Seeing a half-sister means experiencing intrusive guardianship.