The wolf totem animal is on the verge of two worlds. Women's classification by appearance. Illustrated - But not all the strongest feelings remain forever

It tastes like wild raspberries. These berries always seemed to me insanely sweet, their sweetness and astringency created an extraordinary feeling of a forbidden fruit. Forbidden fruit - that's what it tasted like! This woman tasted like the fruit that you most want to eat. Like the wild raspberry that grows in the clearings of the forest in the most remote thickets of bushes, this woman had a special smell, in some ways impudent, and in others very soft.

Making your way through tenacious sticky bushes, you will definitely come across some insidious prickly branches that cling to your clothes and try to stop you, slippery logs in the foliage and a lot of annoying midges. And when you get to the cherished branch strewn with wild raspberries, you involuntarily stop yourself in anticipation of this pleasure and unprecedented sweetness. This woman was like a wild raspberry. And I wanted to feel it as strongly as those small nondescript, but so expensive and priceless berries.

But wild raspberries have thorns that they plant in anyone who dares to touch their fruit. Mercilessly torn skin, torn clothes, and blood oozing from small scratches await me as I reach out for sweet berries. I begin to look at this woman, evaluate her lips, her smile and her blue cold eyes, when I suddenly realize that it is not at all a victim and not at all that infinitely pleasant young lady who just talked so sweetly with me. A dispassionate lone she-wolf is looking at me, in whose eyes there is no pity, no compassion and warmth. She is looking at me with infinite intentness and attention, as if evaluating her opportunities and the danger that I can create for her. The gaze and the closed lips tell me that I should be wary of this woman. But I don’t leave, I don’t stop responding to her look, as if she attracts me with her behavior, her seriousness.

Sometimes it seems to me that each person belongs to a certain class of people, to a kind of circle into which he enters. And all people seem to wear bandages of different colors (or T-shirts), which determine belonging to a particular class. There are people who resemble predators in the habits of eating others, suppressing, devouring and hunting in order to achieve more. They are hunters, ready to go to great lengths to crush their next victim, to surpass it, to be stronger. But there are those who are always destined to be victims, herbivorous defenseless creatures, capable only of flight. And they want to follow. This predatory feeling arises by itself without being tied to the social status, opportunities and elitism of the origin of this or that person.

But sometimes it happens that you feel like a predator who sees in front of him a weaker predator that you want to attack. I looked at her, peered into her carnivorous blue eyes, closed lips, perfectly smoothed hair, looked at her business suit, expensive watch on her wrist, peered into her habits, into the sharpness of the movements of this lady, and more and more I caught myself feeling attracted to her.

She was the ideal of my dreams, she was the one that I always wanted to have next to me, which I want to consider all my life, love and try to understand. A strong character, an imperious animal look, intermittent quick movements, a stormy stream of deep thoughts and the piercing with which she looked, all this struck me, made me tremble inside and smile. I love exactly this strength in a woman, steadfastness and stability of views, emotionality that permeates a slender female body and is reflected in the eyes of aggression. A woman who can be a worthy opponent, who will play on the same field with me and will not yield to me. A woman who will potentially be the perfect mother to my child, instilling in him a sense of fighter. A game that starts with one glance, from the moment you first look into those cold focused eyes and beautiful facial contours, this game fascinated me more and more.

She earns 10 times more than me, manages an entire department, with one click of her fingers, anyone can be fired from the company without severance pay. I thought about it and chuckled. Why am I not afraid of her? Why don’t I feel embarrassed, don’t take a step back, don’t try to get away from her gaze, which so many characteristic men can’t stand?

She asked me why I was grinning, but I couldn't explain it to myself. I understood or felt that I had some kind of power over this she-wolf, over her character, over her energy and dominance.

A conversation ensued, from which I realized that for some reason I dominate her, surpass her, feel more comfortable in communication. In her family there were merchants of the first guild, while in my family there were princes. I told her about my ancestors, about the Khavan princes, who were a very significant and powerful family at the court. Perhaps that is why I feel some subconscious power over this woman. As if I was a little higher than her in class, in terms of the internal organization of myself, I was above her, surpassed her, although in this life I did not achieve much at all.

She proposed to me and I didn't refuse her. She quickly crept up to me, like a she-wolf who wants to get her prey, crept up and jumped right at me from the intricacies of her intrigues. I did not want to see her as an object of desire, I did not want to kiss her or sleep with her, but I felt the attraction that a man feels for a strong, powerful woman. I wanted to crush her, from my weak, unsteady position, I wanted to lower her below me, to make this woman want me. And I felt how much she wanted the same.

Her proposal was not a surprise, she said that she wanted me and invited me to her place. And I accepted this invitation, completely forgetting that wild raspberries have very sharp, ruthlessly scratching thorns.

Her Volvo glided smoothly along the road, and it was very comfortable to sit in the soft leather seat of the car and feel how this woman with cold eyes and a voluptuous grin is now running her hand over my knee, swiping her hand a little higher. The eroticism of this woman lay in her cunning, in her pleasant and so flattering attention to me, in her tender look. She seemed to give herself completely to me, gave her body to my hugs, my kisses and my caresses.

The apartment in the very center of the city was somewhat reminiscent of the decoration of a spacious palace, in which everything was subordinated to the coldness, calmness and alienation. On the vast shelves are hundreds of rare editions of books, a lot of souvenirs from different countries, rare antique porcelain. I was drawn to this woman's ballerina collection because my mom collects porcelain ballerinas! The large bed in the center of the room was like a pedestal, on which she simply fell exhausted as soon as we arrived at her house. Leaning on her arm, she looked at me with the same imperious, hungry coldness in her eyes. And in that look I saw something else, hitherto completely unknown to me. She was the head of the investment department, under her command there were many people who unquestioningly, like soldiers, carried out her orders, were ready to do everything possible so as not to receive a portion of discontent from her. She aspired to the top, she wanted to get a key position in the company, she wanted to build an even more impressive career and make sure that her vision was important to everyone who worked with us. But right now, at the moment when I looked at her, taking off my shirt, I saw a completely different woman: softer, more anxious, fragile and lonely. She wanted to experience something that many successful people do not achieve - warmth and care, attention from a man. I saw a little girl worried about being ignored, a quivering young lady who seemed to have taken off her armor and dropped her sword. She was naked, but this exposure was more internal, symbolizing the accessibility and freedom of my actions.

She held out her hand to me and looked at me with sad hope. I moved closer and touched her palm. In the hands of a woman, I have always been attracted to something special, some kind of grace and softness. For some reason, you always want to kiss women's hands, especially when they are beautiful and well-groomed. In the palm of a woman, one can read the character and fate of a woman, her attitude to the world and herself, her inner world. You can peer for hours at the wrinkles on the skin, at the manicure, at the grace of the fingers and the tenderness with which she clenches her hands into fists. It is said that in the palm of your hand there is a line of life and a line of wisdom. In this regard, my life line bifurcates somewhere in the middle of its path, as if creating two parallel destinies. And then these lines end with the wrist. But my line of wisdom is very short, which means that I am more inclined to throw myself on this bed now and start undressing this beautiful woman than to do science.

In her palm, I read a very strong character, in some ways even rudeness and cruelty. But I did not have time to realize this when she hugged me sharply and threw me on the bed.

Long kisses and attentive glances at each other stretched endlessly. Her lips tasted like wild raspberries, which I love so much. I wanted to kiss her more and more, touch her tongue with my own and feel her lips. This sharpness with which she began to undress me did not let up, and therefore I began to realize that she would not stop, and the decisiveness in her character would always be decisive.

Her sharp claws dug into my back, as if they were the thorns of those wild raspberries I picked as a child. I cooled my ardor by grabbing her head and carefully looking into her eyes. There was a fire in those blue eyes, a cold and calculating flame of a man who wants to get his own way, and for this he will do anything. She was on fire, and it was noticeable, but at the same time a certain smack of her prudence, her internal control of what was happening was created. For me it was a game, one of many that I play and that I really appreciate. And for her, these kisses seemed to me like steps to my goal.

She seemed to be trying to taste my lips, taste my flesh, and there was a feeling that she had little time for this, so she was in such a hurry. I grabbed her wrists and began kissing her neck, cheeks and lips greedily. I wanted to understand why I had such a strong woman in my arms, why she made it so clear to me that she wanted to have me next to her. Is it really the passion that is now on her lips? Or something else?

"Do it for me..." she whispered in a fit of emotion. "I want you to do it."

I looked at her a little more closely, a little more seriously.

What do you want? I asked.

She slightly removed her face from my lips and, looking to the side, said in a cold, impassive tone:

You're the only advisor to the Vice President. I want you to tell him that I'm the best candidate for his first deputy. And I want you to solve this assignment problem. Can you do it?....... For me, my cat!

Since ancient times, people have revered and feared wolf, he was called the elder brother, they frightened children with him, they composed legends and retellings about him. The wolf genus itself is quite extensive, including coyotes and jackals, but it is precisely wolves became the direct and closest ancestors of the domestic dog.

Wolf- a rather large predator from the family of mammals, which could previously be found almost everywhere in Russia and the CIS. But due to a number of problems caused by the progress of technological progress, the habitat of these animals has narrowed significantly in recent decades.

The name itself wolf” comes from the Old Slavonic language, has long Indo-European roots and literally means “ drag' or 'drag'.

It turns out that the Wolf family is quite extensive - there are about 32 different subspecies of wolves, but only six main ones are found on the territory of Russia - tundra, Central Russian forest, Mongolian, Caucasian, Siberian and steppe.

What do wolves eat

Basic wolf diet make up ungulates depending on their habitat. It can be reindeer, horses, roe deer, pigs, moose, goats, both wild and domesticated.

In desert regions, Wolves prey on antelopes and sheep. In connection with the expansion of human activity and the introduction of humans into the natural habitat of wolves, attacks by predators on livestock farms occur.

But wolf population constantly decreasing due to lack of food and constant hunting for them. During difficult periods, Wolves can feed on frogs, lizards and even large insects. They sometimes eat berries, mushrooms and fruits, and to quench their thirst they can plunder a watermelon or melon planting.

Where does the wolf live

Wolves prefer wooded areas and choose flat or mountainous areas with sparse vegetation and a temperate climate for housing.

pack of wolves usually occupies an area of ​​30 to 60 km and prefers a settled way of existence. But in the spring-summer period, this area is divided into fragments in accordance with the hierarchy of the pack: the best goes to the strongest Wolves.

Wolves can also be found in the north in the taiga and tundra near human settlements.

Wolves are smart and understand that where a person is, you can always profit from something. And although they harm agriculture, on the other hand, they also regulate the balance of the ecosystem, controlling the number of animals and acting as forest orderlies.

Are wolves dangerous to humans?

Scientists have come to the conclusion that the Wolf will not attack a person just like that, since he has an instinct for self-preservation. But sometimes there are sad cases of attacks by animals with rabies. Or with a severe lack of food.

wolf breeding

Mating season for wolves lasts from January to April. Wolves are monogamous and lead a family lifestyle, the couple stays together until one of the partners dies.

The she-wolf before the onset of estrus does not accept the sexual advances of the male. Violent fights for the attention of females, often fatal, are absolutely normal among Wolves.

she-wolves reach puberty in the second year of life, and Wolves - in 3 years.

Wolves have only 1 estrus a year so that the cubs are born in the warm springtime, when there is enough food around.

wolf couple to begin with, he takes care of a safe shelter for future offspring. These can be both various secluded places, and other people's burrows of badgers or arctic foxes, their own burrows are rarely dug.

Only the She-Wolf uses the den, she is also engaged in raising little wolf cubs, which at first resemble puppies of an ordinary dog. Usually from 3 to 13 wolf cubs are born to the She-Wolf, and the whole flock helps to feed them.

But despite close care from parents and other Wolves, in the first year of life only 20-40% of cubs survive. This is due to disease, lack of food and competition within the family, when stronger puppies get more food, and weak ones gradually die.

Wolves have a rather interesting voice, which has much more possibilities than other animals. Wolves not only howl, as is commonly believed, they also know how to grumble, whimper, squeal, yelp, bark and growl. Moreover, they are fully aware of these sounds and understand the information voiced by their fellow tribesmen. This helps to find out where the prey is hiding, where to go hunting and even report the appearance of people. And the collective wolf howl is a hallmark of an active social life.

By the way, Wolves can hear your tribesman and transmit messages from a distance of about 8 kilometers.

The Wolf is very highly developed sense of smell, he distinguishes smells 100 times better than a person, so the scent plays one of the main roles in the wolf family.

Wolves are strong and hardy animals that can overcome the distance up to 80 km, and if necessary develop speed 60 km/h, which is one of the important conditions for survival.

In nature Wolves live out up to 15 years, but already at 10-12 years old they show signs of old age.

The wolf also symbolizes devotion and fidelity in the family, it is associated with many heroes of folk tales and epics of the ancient cultures of the peoples of the North, where it personifies strength and courage. But sometimes he is perceived as an evil and negative character who is greedy and greedy, and sometimes serves the dark forces.

Women write about psychology and biology in glamorous magazines, but you can read about the zoology of the weaker sex in men's publications and on thematic forums. The portal offers its own interpretation of animal types, based on read fairy tales and encyclopedias, associations, resemblance and coincidence of characters. In order to avoid accusations of male chauvinism, the process of classification was entrusted to a woman.

From ciliates to jellyfish

Extraordinary personalities in the crowd are rare. Increasingly, we find ourselves surrounded by plankton: we drift freely through life, hang in the depths of the Internet and are one of the components of the food chain. And yet plankton is a collection of heterogeneous organisms. In this environment one can find ciliate woman, whose thoughts are exclusively on shoes. Simple as five kopecks, she practically wants nothing and does not expect anything from life. Well, except to meet the same unicellular, so that you can turn into a ciliate slipper.

Amoebas that have lost their harmony and liveliness of character should also be attributed to the category of protozoa. , disappearing in the eternal queue either in the supermarket for food, or in the executive committee for the improvement of living conditions. amoeba woman calmly goes with the flow, easily adapts to the surrounding reality and actively reproduces.

If the representative of plankton in the ocean of life failed to meet her soul mate, she can easily turn into a jellyfish . It just seems like jellyfish women spineless and characterless. In fact, they have not only a character, but also a life credo: "Don't touch me!". However, and touchy get married. In addition, not a single man in the world is immune from the fact that, lying down in the evening with a charming beauty, in the morning he can find a real gorgon in his bed. An irritated jellyfish stings without a hitch, can petrify with a single glance, or cause paralysis with a single word.

From mouse to rabbit

Mouse woman can be found on the street, at work and even in the museum in the Greek hall. And pass without noticing. She is sweet, friendly and humble. Therefore, it is easy to fall into mousetraps with free cheese.

The mouse is not untalented. Some women in this category are imaginative and can fly. What often scares men. Therefore, it is not surprising that husbands call some bats vampires and reproach them for sucking out their vital juices. Although in fact, the strong half of humanity needs completely different women to be afraid.

Any mouse from the point of view of psychology can easily turn into rat. Fortunately, there are enough courses and textbooks on stervology today. Unlike a gray mouse driven into a corner, a rat can not only rush at the offender, but even deliver a preemptive strike.

On the squirrel woman holds the whole office. All day long she turns the impeller, then runs home to feed her family and create a reserve for the winter.

bunny woman serves as an office decoration. She does not forget to change her coat in time for the season. Often cowardly, but always shows ingenuity in order to achieve the desired result. Willingly fulfills the petty whims of her husband or boss. After all, this is what she was created for - white and fluffy. Men often live with bunnies, but dream of completely different women.

From cat to lioness

Hollywood screenwriters love to exploit this female type. Catwoman walks by itself, purrs when in the mood, and scratches for no reason. In fact, cats are also different. Kisonki are not far from bunnies. Such people easily become mistresses and even more willingly the fifth wives of aging oligarchs. The main thing in the content is not to forget to buy fashionable gadgets and other things on time. Forgetful owners, pussy takes revenge - usually crap in shoes.

Advanced pussies go social lionesses. Some are born with them, but still remain the property of the one who feeds them, provides shelter and protection.

Catwoman is bold and determined. But she's a terrible slacker. By agreeing to live in your house, he becomes a full-fledged mistress in it. Now she decides which curtain should hang on the window and which whiskey you will have for dinner. But you will have to nail the cornice and serve it on the table. Do not forget to regularly scratch the cat behind the ear and in any case do not iron against the coat.

A dissatisfied family life of a cat often blows the roof. She goes on a spree, and instead of warmth and comfort, kittens appear in the house, suspiciously similar to the neighbor's cats.

From dog to wolf

Men have their ideal dog women. They are faithful, faithfully look into the eyes, follow all the commands, bring beer along with slippers, lick the wounds of their souls and guard the owner's sacred dinner dream. Only in the wild such women are rare.

A dog woman can be a friend, or she can put her husband on a short leash. The watchdog Cerberus forbids his man to drink beer, watch football, meet friends and generally move far from the kennel. She can bark for any trifle.

fox woman- the main initiator of office intrigues. Her cunning will help to get out of any crisis situation more than once. Beautiful, smart and self-sufficient, she can invite the man she likes to dinner, pay the bill and use it for its intended purpose.

wolf woman- a loner. But if she finds her mate, she is ready to gnaw through the throat of anyone who looks in the direction of the male. Able to control a pack.

From sheep to cow

Representatives of the ungulate superorder should also be divided into species: they are paired and unpaired, domestic and wild. There are calluses and ruminants among them.

The most harmless female type from this series - sheep. Light curls, the presence of a golden fleece and an almost complete lack of intelligence ensure them constant success in a male company.

Nobody wants to live with an old horse, but rarely does anyone get upset when a worker appears in the team. horse. Not only all problems can be put on it, but also the burden of responsibility. And such a woman plows without raising her head, even sleeping on the go.

No less willingly is the woman-horse harnessed to the family wagon and pulls this burden uphill without unnecessary bucks. She is pushed around by all and sundry, periodically tightening the bit. And yet there are pacers in this class. Mustang women are moving up the career ladder well, because, in addition to the ability to work hard, they also have a presentation and a strong character. They can kick the offender and easily gallop away from problems.

Another female type - Milch cow. This is preferred to marry sissies to ride like cheese in butter. Women of this type rarely become high-ranking bosses, as they prefer chewing gum for everyone, they are ready to live in a barn and work in an open field. They love serials.

From canary to magpie

Women and birds have a lot in common. For example, the constant need to clean feathers and twitter incessantly.

canary women willingly live in a cage and please the owner with sweet-voiced trills. These are preferred by men who are insecure and in need of a constant portion of praise.

mother hen keeps under the wing until retirement not only numerous offspring, but also her own husband.

Hummingbird woman bright and exotic, but not found in our forests. Flies in on the road from the south to visit his parents and buys a plane ticket again.

magpie woman cannot live without bright trinkets and will die of envy if a colleague wears a larger brooch.

cuckoo woman he counts the years he lived alone and is angry at the children who have grown up and for some reason do not come to visit their mother, preferring to spend the weekend with their grandmother in the country.

woodpecker woman capable of driving crazy even a tax inspector.

From butterfly to ladybug

From a chrysalis they turn into butterfly. Light, fluttering through life, such women are pleasing to the eye, but do not bring any benefit.

Unlike bees. These workaholic women are equally indispensable in the office and at home. They are forced to court their drones and take care of the queen, following the established rules day by day.

There are women who are importunate flies. They willingly take jobs as sales representatives and can sit for hours in the office of clients, distracting everyone from work until someone rolls up the newspaper and kicks them out.

Distinguish ladybug from others is easy: every marriage leaves a mark on her soul and on her wings. Before the next trip to the altar, she throws her children to her parents in the sky, and she periodically has to be reminded of maternal duties.

From tick to spider

The scariest types. That's what men really need to be afraid of. Tick ​​woman falls on your head, sticks and climbs under the skin so that it has to be removed surgically. Although you can wait until she gets drunk on blood and goes in search of the next victim.

At spider women other habits. She waits in ambush for a long time and weaves her web. If you can still get rid of a female tick, then with a spider everything is much more complicated: those caught in the net have no chance to escape. Especially if a man has a social status and property that can be inherited.

Let's make a reservation right away: in nature, a woman is rarely found who can be 100% attributed to one or another type. Any horse can buck, and an ugly duckling can turn into a beautiful swan. The most important thing, despite all animal instincts, is to always remain human.

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The meaning of the word "Good" according to Efremova's dictionary:
Good -

1. One who is worthy, decency.
2. Someone who is exemplary in behavior.

What follows from here? And what a concept "good woman" is imposed on us by society and stereotypes. Well, let's remember what others tell us: a good woman should be an excellent hostess, decent, kind, sweet, modest, stay at home and raise children, with stable moral principles, be faithful and devoted, and so on blah blah blah. No, of course, there is a rational grain in this. But… who came up with these stereotypes. Something I strongly doubt that we women invented them. And, consequently, they impose a standard model of behavior on us and try to drive us all into one “stall”, measure us with a ruler, criteria of decency and “goodness”. Here we are all our lives and bow to the prevailing patterns, just to conform to what we ourselves do not understand. Why strive to be what you don't want to be. Well, if all this public morality corresponds to the personal values ​​of a woman ... it’s unfortunate when a discord occurs ... in the end we get a woman with a split personality, torn and dissatisfied with life ... I read somewhere a long time ago and remembered the phrase: "He was a good man, but not good for anything"(Read what makes sense!!!). So here.

Men often manipulate a woman in such a way that they try to appeal to our decency and "goodness". Here are my favorite male manipulations:

1. "and I thought you were a good (decent) woman"

2. “I wanted to marry you, but in time I realized that you are a dishonorable woman” or “I only marry a woman who ... (and here is a list of the qualities of a good wife)”

3. "Good girls don't act like that."

The meaning of all these manipulations is the same - to confuse, to cause a feeling of guilt and a feeling of imperfection. Men resort to this kind of trick more often than we think! It’s just that not everyone can hear the subtext of the statements, but it’s something like this: “Girl, you are far from perfect, you still have to grow and grow before me. So go ahead, get out of your skin and earn my attention, trust, respect and whatever. And I will stand aside and revel in my power over you and how you “jump” in front of me. It's a shame? Sounds cruel? Girls, this is a man's world. If you want to be perfect perfection, then you are ordered to go to the nearest mental hospital. From "goodness" in the mouth becomes cloying. Why drive yourself into the corner of social standards, or even worse, the standards of a man?! There is another, alternative way - this is the way to be yourself! The real one! No labels and no censorship!

What does it mean to me to be myself? Let me explain - be yourself - This:

1. Enjoy life in real time. I throw off the shackles of prejudice. After all the past cannot be returned or changed, and the future has not yet been determined. Remember: "There is only a moment between the past and the future, it is he who is called life!". I live online, i.e. Here and now. And enjoy it! Why bother about what I will say and what I will do, and whether I will do it right. Believe me, a woman gets away with a lot if she doesn't give a damn about this topic. Winners are not judged. Even if I blurt out something wrong, I'm a girl, you can always defuse the atmosphere. The main thing is not to cycle, but to include reasonable indifference.

2. Do what I want, and accordingly, do not do what I do not want. I decide what is good for me and what is bad for me. Yes, I have certain obligations to my family, to other important people for me. But that's more of my desires. But not opportunities. I like to dance in Vitebsk at a disco, I sit down and go to fulfill my desire. This is my whim. Allow yourself to pamper yourself from time to time. If I don’t want to go to meet a man for serious reasons, I won’t do it, no matter how much I love him. After all, there will be no one left but me until the end of my days. Everything in this life is temporary, even a man. This approach changes the direction vector from a man and dissolution in him alone to his beloved.

3. Inner comfort and harmony. Everything I do and say fits in with my value system and with my personality. When I communicate with a person, I am morally on the same level with him. I do not put him on a pedestal and do not lower him below me. I “lead” a person psychologically behind me. I throw away fear, confusion, anger so that I feel comfortable internally in the current situation. An example from life. The man looks intently at my chest and says:

Is there milk?

Yes, I have…. Goat…. I find the answer instantly.

They both laughed for ten minutes. Would I have been able to quickly respond to this attack on the part of a man if I had not been on the same psychological level with him? Unlikely. Here it is - the power of banter !!!

4. Unclouded mind. Sometimes our main "computer" needs a substantial reboot. After all, so much information is stored in our brain, and often completely unnecessary. I filter the incoming information, and if I feel it's time to restart the processor, I do so. I then concentrate on some object (preferably motionless), completely dissolve in this object and do not think about anything. This action does not take much time - 5-10 minutes a day is quite enough. Such an overload helps to structure thoughts, and in some cases even helps to find a way out of their situation or solve a problem. In any life situation, it is very important to keep a clear mind and respond quickly to events. A mind that is not clouded by unnecessary data helps to quickly navigate, maneuver and emerge victorious from almost every situation. In dealing with men, this skill is manifested in all its glory. I'll give you an example. Just recently, I was lucky enough to visit the restoration dedicated to the military events of 1812. Naturally, according to an established tradition, disguised "hussars" were present at this event. I could not afford to miss the opportunity to be photographed with a man in uniform. And so I choose the most charming in my opinion and go to the prey. "Hussar" at first resisted (he turned out to be one of the organizers of the holiday and was busy with organizational issues), but I'm used to getting my way. What have I done? Yes, just looked him intently in the eyes ... and that's it .... This is how we turned out in the photo - a girl and a boy stare into each other's eyes, not looking away ... romantically .... Goal achieved... And what is most remarkable, if there were any blocks in my head or if my subconscious was clouded with all sorts of unnecessary stuff, my manipulation failed ...

5. Self-realization. I realize myself not only in relationships with a man. This is just a small part of my life. Most of the time I devote to those areas and those people who are interesting to me. There are so many fascinating things in the world, you just need to see it and want to know a lot.. I have a favorite job. I have a hobby. I have creative interests. I have many friends who also need to be paid attention from time to time. And, finally, a little time remains for my man. ZATO, when we are together, it looks like fireworks, because we have so much news accumulated until we saw each other. I always appear before him rested, relaxed, positive, “alive” at last! With glowing eyes and a charming smile. Therefore, the quality of meetings with a man is more important than their quantity.

6. Thoughtful positive. Whatever happens in my life, I perceive it with dignity and with a certain degree of humor. Any change is my growth and movement forward, so it's good for me. And accordingly, it should be taken positively. But again, thoughtfully positive, meaningfully positive.

7. Inner strength. I have my own position and my own opinion, my own so-called “core” among the people. I do not allow others to try to “sculpt” me into some intricate figures and images. I do it myself with people. An internally strong woman is always visible - by her walk, by her look, by the way she presents herself to the world. But this does not mean that I put myself above the rest. I'm not better or worse than all people, it's just that I'm different, unique, I recognize this in myself and enjoy my originality. I can not be broken, especially a man.

8. Freedom of choice. I remembered the phrase: "we choose, we are chosen." So, I choose! And only me! I am a hunter who gives prey (that is, a man) the illusion that he has chosen me. We remember once and for all - a woman ALWAYS chooses a man, and then competently and unobtrusively exposes the situation as if the man took the initiative. This is the right position a man cannot be deprived of the illusion that HE is hunting for a woman. An example from my life: I get to know a man easily, I especially like online dating in social networks - I go to his page, leave “my mark” there (i.e. put marks, participate in some simple discussion of him status) and that's it - after that, at least a letter of thanks will follow. What next everything is in my hands. After all, the prey itself has already got on the hook.

I also live by the principle of freedom of choice in everything - no one can force me to do something if I don’t want to (I already wrote about this above).

9. Your standards. In particular, their standards of conduct. I want to make a reservation right away - I am not an outcast of society and I do not oppose myself to society. I only urge you to live by your standards. Yes, for me there are social norms that are close to me, such as - do not kill, do not steal, etc. But the standards for men are almost all not for me! I want to put my feet on his lap - I do it, I want to kiss him - I will do it! And I don't care what the aunt at the next table says! Remember, yes, I live in real time. Maybe I'll never get the chance to see this man again. Why complicate things, why make yourself an “exemplary girl”? and most importantly, for whom? If you want to seem extraordinary, do what you want in your impulse. But! Attention, I do not call again to be dissolved!!! Each of us has our own limits and boundaries of behavior. That's all. I'm just saying that at the moment of communication with a man you do what you want, and not society or the subconscious, speaking in the voice of a mother.

10. Work. It won't be easy! I write about it in almost every topic. Here I mean that it is necessary to work first of all on yourself. It's work, hellish everyday work. BUT sometimes you have to “break” yourself, especially when you want to give up everything and live “like everyone else”, i.e. because it's easier. You will have to face misunderstanding, disapproval, and often aggression from others. First of all, from men. Correction - from strong men. And when this happens, it means that you are going in the right direction!!! Winners are not judged, and we are from the category of winners! I am constantly improving myself and developing my personality. In this age of advanced technology, finding a direction for improvement is easy. You need to use all your channels of perception and move forward. There is power in motion!

4. Wolf man, we analyze the type

To you, listening to a bold look,

I'm trying to unravel the essence.

And you have a parade of masks!

Try to guess something.

And now, it seems to me, I touch

The essence that burns in you ...

Then in the night I repent of the pillow,

That your image does not hide secrets ....

Either ice, or flame, or neutral ...

Either evil, or a tornado, or just perfect ...

Look - coldness, goosebumps on the back.

Whose fault have you become like this?

(own essay, 2011).

[I am starting to write this section in the form of an appeal not to a whole mass of women, but to each of you individually. This will make the material easier to understand.

So…. Does he make you shudder just looking at him? Do you feel his inner strength with every cell of your body? Do you feel uncomfortable with him? Are you constantly told that in order to be with him you have to conform to some kind of standard sucked out of your finger? Are you madly drawn to him? Does he always slip away and disappear somewhere?

congratulations you met wolf in sheep's clothing. Such a man is self-sufficient, self-confident, does not depend on anyone, but many depend on him. He is charismatic, smart, knows how to present himself in society, knows how to treat a woman. Doesn't show off his qualities. just one look at him is already enough to understand that in front of you is a male. As a rule, this person has already achieved a certain position in society and has certain resources, in particular, material ones.

Only one of his appearance in a public place causes heart palpitations and fainting in the weaker sex (this is especially impressionable). Women feel its power simply at the level of the subconscious and instincts.

In appearance, this is a sweet, kind, decent person, ready to help and able to sympathize ... well, well, the outer wrapper is sweet (yeah, remember the saying - gently lays ....), but inside - this beast, cruel and indomitable!

Scary? Then run away from him before you become a light snack for him before the banquet. And never look after, otherwise your will can be enslaved, and you will be the next victim in the long track record of this male.

But if you are not something that is not scary, but you a healthy excitement has turned on and you get a buzz from communicating with such an instance, that's when I'll reveal to you a few techniques on how to deal with wolves burnt out by life.

I repeat once again - tell your illusions and dreams about a happy and serene future, about a love nest until the end of your days "NO"!!! and say it every time you get overwhelmed by a wave of romantic delirium and all-consuming love. Let fools dream about it, but you are not like that, you are a wolf with angel eyes! Remember and turn on your brain every time you are carried away into the sea of ​​love and romantic flair. Be realistic, the wolf will never be with a ready-made dog, the wolf will be with the same wolf as himself!

So let's go. For a wolf, all women are the same, because he knows his own worth and believes that females should fight for him themselves.. And he believes this, it is worth recognizing, is not unreasonable. He is accustomed to female attention, puppy delight and females standing on their hind legs, helpfully wagging their tails. For him, this is the norm. How did you understand for him, a woman is an obsequious dog(for especially impressionable ladies, I want to note that this terminology is conditional and I introduced it only metaphorically, so that the analogy would be clear). The wolf is accustomed to whining, licking, obliging squealing, devoted glances, etc. Break his usual pattern, “howl” in a language he understands, distinguish yourself effectively from a pack of dogs!

But you need to do this very subtly, masterfully maneuvering, because you remember that a wolf is a freedom-loving animal and just like that will not give up its freedom to anyone, even a high-class she-wolf! A she-wolf is dangerous for him, and as soon as the animal feels that some kind of affection is twisting it inside, it will most likely run away. So it's easier for him. And he will run so as to tie as many dogs as possible along the way. Thus, the male will suppress in himself a previously unexperienced feeling.

And how to attract a wolf to your person? Yes, it’s easier than ever, - offer him something that no dog will offer, - exciting game! After all, our life is a GAME!!!

1. Call out the hunter's instinct in him.

The wolf is in constant search of prey(at best), but usually in search of another victim who falls at his feet, and, as practice shows, absolutely voluntarily. It also gets a kick out of it. BUT the wolf condescends to the victim, uses it and, well-fed, calmly goes further in search. Such is his life. This needs to be understood. And in due time to play on it. Take advantage of any situation and turn it around as you need it.

Accordingly, the question of how to attract a wolf should not arise for you. He will find you. He just needs to present himself properly. And I urge you not to bet on hypersexuality in the female sense: do not need a primitive in the form of a short skirt, red lipstick and flapping eyelashes. Bet on showiness, I emphasize - not on beauty, but on showiness. The wolf's eyes are full, its beauty can no longer be penetrated. As a lone wolf male once said:

I always, when I come to a place, I scan the women present there.

Do you choose the most beautiful for yourself?, I ask.

No, what are you (laughs). Beauty can't take me anymore. This is a primitive. I choose the most spectacular woman and take her to my house at the end of the evening.

And what do you mean by "spectacular woman"?

This is the victim, which, firstly, stands out from the rest (not by beauty, she can be ugly), but secondly, in order to “take” it, you need to spread your brains. This is a challenge for me.

Did you draw conclusions? Good girl.

In a dialogue with the male described above, the following simple truth can be traced with white threads - a wolf can be hooked at the initial stage ONLY with a certain degree of coldness and inaccessibility. Let him take the initiative and break his head.

By the way, I want to immediately save you from the naive thought that having fed the beast once from your hands, he will lick them all his life for this. The wolf will need to be tamed constantly. I emphasize - to tame, and not to run and humiliate!

2. Position yourself correctly.

Remember, you are not the dog he is used to dealing with. You are equal to the wolf. Conduct yourself accordingly. Don't let yourself be "wiped on your feet", used and manipulated.

Do not overestimate its importance for yourself. To do this, say to yourself: "He is my whim." Remember that he came to you (at an early stage) or he with you (at a later stage) only because YOU wanted it and allowed it to happen. He will be around you for as long as you want. And nothing else.

3. Be yourself.

I already wrote about this above. Here I will focus your attention on the following - you will have to constantly defend the right to be yourself. The wolf will try to inspire you with thoughts about what is right and what is wrong, what kind of woman should be and what should not. Every time a man tries to do this, I advise you to use the following technique: "I am you, you are me." Do you remember the cartoon about Mowgli: "We are of the same blood, you and I." Good. Then you understand the meaning of this phrase: you and I are equal, no one is superior to anyone in any way, no one is better or worse than the other, each of us is unique in his own way, I respect your right to be yourself and accept you the way you are is, respectively, and you accept me for who I am. This idea must be gradually instilled in a man. With a wolf, you will have to do this all the time, because he quite often strives to verbally belittle a woman and “put her on the shoulder blades”. But as they say, he who is warned is armed.

5. How a “man-wolf” manipulates a woman

[I built this section as follows: I conditionally divided it into two parts. The first is devoted to describing the general scheme used by the wolf to fall in love with a woman, the second - to bring specific manipulations used by a man, and how to respond and reflect them].

1. The general scheme of a woman's love.

My multifaceted experience with strong men led me to the following understanding: the wolf thinks outside the box, respectively, and uses sophisticated methods to conquer women. As a rule, it is not difficult for a wolf to “crawl” into a woman’s body; for him, aerobatics is to “crawl” into the soul, settle there, and then “sculpt” whatever he wants from a woman. Also note here that the wolf "puts girls on" for a long time, i.e. even having received what he wanted, he continues to keep the woman in limbo, morally torment and torment, shatters the woman's self-perception. Here it is a female dog aviary. This is the wolf man. He sincerely believes that a woman loves only when she is in pain. And sometimes physical. Some representatives of the powerful of this world do not hesitate to raise their hands against a woman, as they themselves say: "exclusively for educational purposes."

Did you feel uncomfortable or even creepy from what was written ??? But that's the reality. Remember yourself how many of your girlfriends and acquaintances selflessly “love” such types almost all their lives? Yes, all around. And they sincerely believe that with their selfless love, patience and good behavior they will correct the consumer and cynical attitude towards themselves. This is how a dog thinks and acts. This position is fundamentally wrong, because. losing. The wolf behaves differently.

And now I will describe a scheme beloved by male wolves for conquering naive and gullible dogs. I'll start with an excerpt from my dialogue with a representative of a pack of wolves:

I always liked to conquer "difficult" women. And so such a case presented itself. The guys and I celebrated some holiday, at the end of which, as usual, there was not enough booze. Here I am going to the store, standing in line and my attention was attracted by a pretty little saleswoman in the next department. I can't help but dignify such a sweet person with my attention. I drive up, ask for a phone number, to which they rebuff me quite rudely. All my attempts to strike up a conversation with the shrew have failed. Well, no, no, I don't think so. My goal is finally achieved, the booze is brought. But the next morning, the face of the saleswoman is still “standing” before my eyes. So, we must act, good, there are familiar girls in that store. I roll, I learn from them not only the mobile phone number, but also a lot of useful information, namely, that the girl turns out to be difficult, but accustomed to male attention and using men for her needs, and then with a calm heart throws out the used material as unnecessary. All in all, a decent booty.

And what did you do? I ask, already quite engrossed in the story.

Yes, in the usual way. Called, made an appointment, was nice and courteous. For three whole weeks I blew off dust particles from her, waited until she got used to me and to my attention. Then there was some kind of turning point when she did something that I did not like. In general, not the point. Most importantly, she herself gave me a reason to disappear from her life for a while. It seems like for two weeks I didn’t call her, didn’t write, and didn’t let her know about myself. The girl managed to get bored during this time, change her mind about everything that is possible, feel that she was wrong, that she could lose me, suffer. During my absence, I received a number of messages from her, which I simply ignored. And then I showed up, made an appointment. And here she herself apologized, admitted her guilt and almost begged to return to her and not leave her alone. Then everything was the way I want. Until now, I "sculpt" from it what I want.

Genius, isn't it? And everything ingenious is simple! What can I say, kudos to the guy. If you read thoughtfully, then the algorithm for conquering and falling in love with a woman is already clear to you. However, I will briefly describe the stages of this process. So:

1. Attract attention.

It's clear, I think. Each man has his own arsenal for attracting and luring, and in each case it is individual.

2. Get into confidence.

Courtship, restaurants, flowers, compliments. In general, the whole arsenal of the standard manifestation of sympathy and love on the part of a man. The only difference is that the wolf may actually not be as passionate about a woman as it is presented.

3. Find a joint or a plausible excuse.

The wolf waits for the moment when, in his opinion, the woman is behaving wrong or doing wrong, i.e. finds any clue so that you can conditionally “punish” the offender. In the worst case, when there is no such joint, then the man can simply evaporate under some pretext, which he will announce to the woman ONLY after his return.

4. Disappear.

It's also clear here. Moreover, I note that the period of disappearance in each case is individual. It's just that the wolf feels in his gut when it's time to disappear and when it's time to return.

5. Wait time.

The wolf waits in the wings calmly, sometimes not even thinking about his prey at all, because he knows that the victim is already tormenting himself with various thoughts, tears and tantrums. And this is in the hands of a man. He feeds on female emotions at a distance and revels in them, like an energy "vampire".

6. Show up and skim the cream.

There are two options - either the woman herself returns her “knight”, having previously cut off his phone with SMS and calls, or the man announces himself, voicing a plausible reason for the absence. There is only one outcome - the woman melts and agrees to all or almost all the conditions that the man will set. Moreover, the conditions will be quite tough and tougher over time.

Naturally, a man does not think about this scheme when he seduces another dog. With a wolf, everything goes on the level of intuition and conceptual apparatus. I even know cases when it was enough for a man to simply competently draw a woman’s attention to himself by doing some extraordinary act, and often just a boorish attack or an anti-compliment, in order to fall in love with himself “forever and ever”.

2. Wolf Man Manipulation.

I did not pursue the goal of bringing together the entire range of manipulations on the part of male wolves, but only singled out the most common and potent. I presented my mini-collection of male manipulations in the form of a table consisting of three columns, for clarity of perception.

I'll start with a definition.

“Manipulation is a hidden psychological impact using the emotions (feelings) of a partner, in order to benefit the author of the manipulation. There are two keywords here. "Hidden", that is, not obvious, hidden by the manipulator, with a hidden meaning. If the concealment disappears, and the hidden meaning of the actions becomes clear, then the manipulation will not have power, and it will no longer be manipulation. And the second keyword is “emotions (feelings)”. Feelings are a tool of manipulation!

The manipulator deliberately inspires some feeling (emotion, state) to bring another person to an action or deed that is beneficial for himself. Any emotion (positive or negative) is the engine of actions. "The fish is looking for where it is deeper, and the man, where it is better." A person strives to preserve and increase a pleasant emotion, to avoid, to get away from unpleasant experiences, to restore psychological comfort. This is the principle used in manipulation. It is difficult to keep an uncomfortable state for a long time, the human personality begins to look for a way out and, if the manipulation is successful, chooses an act or behavior that is beneficial to the manipulator. During manipulation, the feelings of another person are created and intentionally amplified in order to achieve their result. If only the mind is affected, but there is no feeling, then this is no longer manipulation, but simply a conviction - which is more honest with respect to the partner.

It follows from this that all male manipulations pursue their sole purpose of programming a woman for the behavior “necessary” for the manipulator, i.e. from his point of view, predictable and uncomplicated. "Fit" a woman to your standards and "crush" for yourself. Discourage, cause feelings of guilt, fear, inferiority, a sense of inadequacy of behavior, stupor - these are all the feelings that a wolf causes in its victim.

As you already understood, the she-wolf follows the principle of reflection of manipulations. If she feels that she is being programmed for some behavior that is not typical for her, or for those actions that the she-wolf is not going to do, then the most competent thing is to repel the attack. Here I have given all the reflection techniques in the form of a banter, because humor is humor: when it's funny, it's not scary anymore.

In some cases, you can simply pause to collect your thoughts. I remembered an anecdote in the topic: “The golden female rule: you don’t know what to answer - smile and straighten your bra.” The rational grain in this anecdote is very significant. I met quite strong and tough men (if not cruel), to give a worthy rebuff to whom it was not always possible in the form of a banter (I am also a person, I can get lost in some situations), so the most sober thing was to take a minute time-out.

6. Conclusion or my philosophy in action

The written material is full of all kinds of tools and "chips". And with proper application, a complete transformation of a woman's worldview is possible. White threads throughout the manual goes the idea of ​​competently positioning yourself with a man.

Having absorbed my worldview and imbued with it, you can at least always be yourself, and, as a maximum, everything depends only on your desire and your ambitions!

Do not be lazy to periodically re-read the material, each time you will discover new facets in the perception of the text.

Be yourself, break the "patterns" of behavior, make men fall in love with you! Go through life with your head held high! After all, you are a woman, and you are right!

..Do not cry and do not regret what has flown by...
Breathe in the freedom and warmth of spring...
And get up from your knees, because you are the Queen! ..

7. Thanks

Although it is customary to write thanks at the beginning of the story, I still placed them at the end of my manual for personal reasons.

So, I want to say a huge thank you to my family and my friends who kept me enthusiastic and inspired to further achievements.

A special “thank you” to the wolf men who were and are in my life. Without you, I would not have had so much material and so much "soil" for research. All of you have made me stronger and wiser. Thanks to you, I became who I am. Thank you also for the emotions, drive and courage that I get from you.

Also thanks to my critics and opponents who keep me in good shape and once again instill confidence in the success of all my undertakings.

Thanks everyone!

There are many legends about these predators. Sometimes extremely controversial and controversial. Russian fairy tales depict the wolf as a dim-witted, dull-witted, not very smart animal. On the other hand, zoologists consider the wolf to be one of the smartest and most intelligent animals, capable of rapid learning and adaptation. Many questions are also raised by personal relationships between animals within the same flock.

The loyalty and devotion of wolves to their pack is surprising. And the loyalty of the wolf is worthy of a poem. Surprisingly, but this is the real truth.

A she-wolf chooses a partner for herself once and for life. It is clear that life in the wild dictates quite peculiar rules. The candidate must meet certain criteria. He must be a brave, strong, skillful hunter and getter, caring and devoted, a recognized leader and leader of the future pack.

wolf and she-wolf

As for the pack, then, probably, this is not entirely true. Since the wolf pack is first and foremost a family. It consists of a leading pair, a wolf and a she-wolf, and their descendants of different generations: from wolf cubs less than a year old, to two or three-year-old teenagers. Moreover, personal relationships in the family are supported not only by the authority of the leader, but also by the amazing relationships between all family members.

Of course, conflicts also arise, which are quickly resolved with just a stern look from the leader or his girlfriend. The main goal of the wolf family is to take care of the kids. Moreover, all members of the pack take care of the wolf cubs with all their might.

The leader wolf is usually responsible for order among males, young wolves obey the mother wolf. Grown up wolves either remain in the pack, if they are ready to obey the leader all their lives, or leave in search of a free she-wolf in the hope of eventually creating their own pack.

Thus, the leader can be the one who not only passionately wants freedom and independence, but is also able to defend this right. Surprisingly, the same rule applies to the she-wolf. Only capable of renouncing a calm and inconspicuous existence in the family of her parents, where her whole life will be devoted to raising her younger brothers and sisters, the she-wolf will begin to look for her borrowed one with the sole purpose of creating her own family pack.

It is in this way, once and for all, that the wolf and she-wolf unite their destinies and lives, making their entire subsequent existence a continuous struggle. Unlike dogs, wolves have remained monogamous.