In a difficult moment support is always more valuable than gold. Georgy Alexandrov

Yes, that's it, nothing else. You yourself gave me this rhythm,
So allow yourself to give me your hand, and into a new frequency.
Well, who has never fallen anywhere -
He is unlikely to be aware of the real height. Katya Tsoylik

When a person is in anguish, do not offer him to “pull himself together”, but admire his endurance. Michael Litvak.

Even strong people need a strong shoulder. I'm talking about women and men. Angelina Jolie

When you agree to help, it does not mean that you have given up. It means that you are not alone in this world. "Life as it is"

When the earth leaves from under your feet and there is nothing to lean on, there is only one thing left - to hold on to the stars. Sergei Vedenyo

We need support. We need friends. If they are not around, we have to turn loneliness into our main weapon. And then what surrounds us can help us move towards the main goal. Paulo Coelho. Mage's Diary

In difficult times, you can always safely count on help. good people. Especially for the help of the kindest of them - himself. Yuri Tatarkin

The Almighty helps only those who are able to help themselves - he provides only moral support. Neuah

The only way to help yourself is to help others. Kahlil Gibran Gibran

If you need a helping hand, know that you have it - your own. When you get older, you will realize that you have two hands: one to help yourself, the other to help others. Audrey Hepburn

Sometimes one word from a person who believes in you is enough to bring you back to the world. Alessandro D'Avenia.

If at least one person needs my support, smile or help, then I do not work and live in vain. Oksana Mikhailovna Marchenko

Knowing misfortune, I learned to help the sufferers. Virgil Maron Publius

You will always have everything you want in life if you help other people get what they want. Zig Ziglar

If you are unable to support another, then grow and grow with all your might. “Unheard of game”

Kindle your fire - someone really needs it! Stepan Balakin

If you have nothing to give into the hands of the needy, give something to his heart. One word of support can lift a person out of the darkness of despair.

Sometimes, to help a person, you just need to be near him. “ Crusade Chrono”

A good friend will support in a difficult moment, a great friend will pretend that he did not notice anything. "Desperate Housewives"

The most active philanthropy is that which helps people to help themselves and maintain self-respect. Eugene S. Dorsey

understanding heart,
Strengthens those who love
Those who believe very soon
Will invite you on the road.
understanding heart
And forgive us, and judge. DDT - Understanding Heart

When you feel like crying
Call me…
I don't promise to make you laugh
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away.
Call me…
I do not promise to persuade you to stay ...,
But I can run away with you.

If one day you don't want to hear from anyone at all,
Call me…
I promise to come for you.
And I promise to be quiet. Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Just don't lose heart
Look ahead
And your loved ones will support you
And they will always understand.

Mutual support is the basis of marriage.

The most important thing is your home
The family and those with whom you are surrounded are important,
Your friends, not those who turn away
When the clouds cover the sun. Ritmo, Under Myriad Stars

When you ask a man for support and do not push away his refusal, the next time he will more willingly respond to your request. John Grey.

It is considered accepted that people become attached to those they have helped. This speaks of the kindness of nature: the ability to love is truly a well-deserved reward for a good deed. Nicola Sebastian Chamfort

You know, when I look back at what our family went through, what each of us went through, I see all that pain ... I understand that we survived it all, supporting each other. "Supernatural"

If it is commendable to do good to friends, then there is no shame in accepting help from friends. Plutarch

If it is difficult for a person you care about, you should be there. Even those who do not want to appear weak are waiting for a kind word. This makes it easier to deal with problems. Yes, circumstances are not always conducive to this. But if you are alive and well, did not fly on an expedition into space, then there are many ways to support a loved one without a personal presence. One option is messengers.

IN dark times bright people are clearly visible.

Erich Maria Remarque

For these words to touch you with positive side, offer full list with examples of supportive messages that can be sent. Copy SMS and immediately send to the recipient.

Universal

In your own words

* * *
I want you to know that even in this moment you are not alone. There are many like you. So many. You just don't know. And this confirms the fact that it can be experienced!
* * *
To reach the goal, you must first of all go. If something happened, then you are not standing still. This is just an event that met along the road of life. Nothing just happens.
* * *
The biggest mistake you can make in life is the constant fear of making mistakes.
* * *
Life is not suffering. It's just that you suffer from it, instead of living and enjoying it.
* * *
There is no point in looking for a place where you will feel good. It makes sense to learn how to create it well anywhere.
* * *

* * *
When you feel very bad, raise your head. You will definitely see sunlight.
* * *
When you really want something, the whole Universe will help to ensure that your desire comes true.
* * *
You can only see what you believe. Believe and you will see.
* * *
Fuck everyone who doesn't believe in you. Remember once and for all: faith in your own strength is the main incentive to achieve your goal.
* * *
If you don't believe in yourself, you won't achieve anything. Therefore, avoid those who make you doubt your own abilities.
* * *
Do not waste your thoughts, emotions and feelings on unworthy people.
* * *
Helping others improves your own life.

In verse

* * *
While we are alive, we can fix everything ...
Realize everything, repent ... Forgive.
Do not take revenge on enemies, do not dissemble loved ones,
Friends that pushed away, return ...
While we are alive, you can look back ...
See the path you came from.
From bad dreams waking up, push off
From the abyss to which they approached.
While we are alive ... How many have managed
Stop loved ones that are gone?
We did not have time to forgive them in life,
And to ask for forgiveness, - Could not.
When they leave in silence
There, from where there is definitely no return,
Sometimes it takes a few minutes
Understand - oh my God, how guilty we are ...
And the photo is a black and white movie.
Tired eyes - a familiar look.
They already forgave us a long time ago
For the fact that they were too rarely around,
For no calls, no meetings, no warmth.
Not faces in front of us, just shadows...
And how much was not said
And not about that, and not with those phrases.
Tight pain - guilt final touch -
Scraping, cold skin.
For all that we have not done for them,
They forgive. We cannot ourselves...
* * *
When a tear drips from pain ...



You sit quietly in silence ...
Close your eyes, and realizing that you are tired ...
Tell yourself alone...
I will be happy! No matter what!
* * *
Yes, everyone is missing something...
That snow for some reason quickly melts,
That morning comes late
That warm days missing.
There is always something lacking.
But, living the rest of the days,
Suddenly I see - there is no lack
Nothing ... just not enough years
To stop getting angry
To life and enjoy it.
* * *
You don't have to live to get to heaven
And you need to create a paradise!
Do not slander, do not betray
And don't steal the lives of others.
Sometimes an atheist
According to my conscience
Closer to God than an artist
What is in the cassock for people ...
Once God is in the heart, then heaven is in the soul!
And if it's dark
You can't get to heaven already
Hell no matter...

Loss of a loved one

parents

* * *
Hold on! In memory of my mother. She wouldn't want to see you in despair.
* * *
The death of a loved one is an irreparable grief. I understand how hard it is for you. Be strong in spirit.
* * *
A bright memory of her forever in our hearts. She was a good person, you need to continue to carry out her mission.
* * *
We sincerely mourn and condole with you at this bitter moment.
* * *
We will carry a bright and kind memory of him throughout our lives.

child

* * *
Accept my condolences! There has never been a better one, and there never will be. But in yours and in our hearts, he will remain young, strong, full of life man. Everlasting memory! Hold on!

* * *
Condolences to you! You need to find the strength in yourself to survive these most difficult minutes and difficult days. He will remain in our memory forever. a good man!
* * *
Let me express my most sincere condolences on the occasion of a heavy, irreparable loss!
* * *
For all of us, he will remain an example of love of life. And may his love of life illuminate your emptiness and grief of loss, help you survive the time of farewell. We mourn with you in difficult times and will remember him forever!
* * *
It is very bitter to lose loved ones and relatives, but it is doubly difficult when young, beautiful and strong leave us. God rest his soul!
* * *
I would like to find words to somehow ease your pain, but are there such words on earth at all. Hold on for the sake of blessed memory. Everlasting memory!

Husband/wife

* * *
Love never dies, the memory of it will always shine your heart. You just believe in it!
* * *
A loved one does not die, but simply ceases to be near. In your memory, in your soul, your love will be eternal! Be strong!
* * *
The past cannot be returned, but bright memory This love will stay with you for the rest of your life. Be strong!
* * *
I grieve with you at this difficult moment. But for the sake of children, for the sake of loved ones, you need to survive these mournful days. Invisibly, he will always be there - in the soul and in our eternal memory about this bright man.

Relatives

* * *
My condolences! It hurts to think about it, it's hard to talk about it. I sympathize with your pain! Everlasting memory!
* * *
Little consolation, but know that we are with you in grief of loss and sincerely empathize with your entire family! Everlasting memory!
* * *
Please accept my sincere condolences! What a man! As she lived modestly and quietly, she left humbly, as if a candle had gone out. Heavenly kingdom to her!

Friends

* * *
I know he meant a lot to you. They say heaven takes the best. Let's believe in it and pray for his soul!
* * *
You were like sisters, I understand your feelings. I want to share this grief with you. How can I help you? You can always count on my support.
* * *
He was a good person. I understand how difficult it is for you right now. Time heals wounds, you must be strong for the sake of your best friend. he wouldn't want you to sag.
* * *
I am very sorry that this happened. I'm truly sorry! You hold on. Your friend is watching you from the sky. Make him proud of you. For the sake of your friendship.

Disease

Addressee

* * *
God does not send such trials to a person that he is unable to survive. So you can, and you will definitely cope with it. I believe!
* * *
Listen to the advice of doctors and take care of yourself. For the sake of a happy future and people who care about you.
* * *
I'm sorry about what happened. Remember, you can always count on me.
* * *
The soul would not have a rainbow if the eyes did not have tears. You'll be fine.
* * *
Everything will be fine. You will get better and life will be filled bright colors, remember: after the black stripe there is always a white one!
* * *
Believe in your recovery good mood and optimism can play important role. Everything will be fine! It cannot be otherwise!
* * *
Let it be bad now, but then everything will be fine. Everything will change and the pain will recede. God will give strength to endure everything, do not lose hope, hold on.
* * *
Think positive, believe in recovery, do not succumb to illness, fight! It's hard, but you have to keep going! We love you and believe that together we will definitely overcome the disease.

close person of the addressee

* * *
He (she) will definitely recover, you just need to believe and not lose hope.
* * *
Everything will be fine! We are always there. If you need help - get in touch.
* * *
Think only about the good! The disease will pass, he (she) will recover. It won't always be bad. You just have to wait.
* * *
We will pray for him (her), and you hold on!
* * *
God does not send trials that a person cannot survive. And she can! We are sure of it! If you need our help, please contact us. Let's do our best and get better!

Treason

Husband

* * *
Everything in life is for the better, only we understand this over time. The pain will subside, and you will look at the world with different eyes. And then there will be already much worthy people nearby!
* * *
Darling, everything will pass, everything will be fine. I know you Strong woman, you can do it. He didn't deserve you. Find the strength to endure this pain. And believe me, all the good things are ahead!
* * *
Everything will be alright. You are self-sufficient and clever woman. Gather the pain into a fist and throw it away along with all the memories.
* * *
Start life with clean slate don't think about the past. This can be learned. You can do it!

If such a situation is close friend for example, find out and help her with good advice.

Wives

* * *
A woman does not cheat with her body, she cheats with her soul - remember these words. Why do you need a person who betrayed? Find the strength within yourself to get through this. And the sooner you do this, the sooner something good will knock on your life.
* * *
When you leave, you need to leave! Find the strength not to return to the place where you were once betrayed. If you need moral support, you can always contact me. I think you are worthy better attitude to yourself!
* * *
Respect yourself and understand that you are not on your way with this person. She doesn't deserve respect. Forgive her, let her go and make room next to you for a more worthy woman.

Find out and help the man make the right decision.

guy

Life filters people who don't deserve you. be grateful higher powers that they care about you and remove from your life those who will not make you happy. It's hard for you right now, that's okay. But over time, you will be convinced that everything is only for the better.
* * *
Don't worry, this is not the last man on Earth.
* * *
He doesn't deserve your suffering, be strong.
* * *
You are beautiful, interesting and smart, so therefore you are not threatened by loneliness.
* * *
I will always support you, you deserve the best. Remember this, and do not humiliate yourself.

Girls

* * *
Consider that in this way, forces from above filter people who you do not need. Head higher and forward, the light did not converge on it like a wedge.
* * *
You strong guy You can cut her out of your life. I will always support you!
* * *
You good guy, it is her own fault that she did not value you.
* * *
Everything will be fine, the girls themselves will hang around your neck, you're a macho!

In verse

* * *
How people's lives filter. Noticed?
But she is smarter and wiser,
Yesterday we slept in the same bed,
Not even among friends today.
* * *
Braga is stronger in someone else's glass.
The chest is larger in someone else's wife.
When half a step to the abyss,
we are no longer needed.
I understood one of the truths
that the pig will find dirt everywhere.
Not enough bullets to shoot at the rats
that escape from the ship.

Changed

* * *
Don't blame yourself for what happened. It is human nature to make mistakes. Let this mistake teach you a great lesson: every sunset is the beginning of a new, bright dawn.
* * *
I don't blame you, and I don't support you. After that you didn't a bad person you just made a mistake. Do not try to fix the problem, try to fix your thoughts, and then, I am sure, the problem will be solved by itself.
* * *
You can't forget it. But you can stop blaming yourself, and then you will remember it less often.
* * *
There are reasons for everything, and I'm sure you had them too. Do not blame yourself. The one to whom you are really important will not reject you even after what happened, and will give you the opportunity to explain. The important thing is that you sincerely regret it, and have drawn the right conclusions. There are many examples in the world when, after betrayal, people really begin to appreciate each other and are more afraid of losing than those who remain faithful. The former faced the problem head-on, and can assess all the risks. I wish everything goes well!

Betrayal

Friend

* * *
A person who betrayed love can be justified, but a person who betrayed friendship cannot! Draw the right conclusions, and learn to live without this person.
* * *
Pull yourself together and understand that a real friend could not do this to you! Dry your tears and start singing!
* * *
They say that true friends cannot be replaced, your friends easily replaced you. Conclusion - there were no "real". Everything is ahead, believe me!

* * *
I wonder what your former best friends are doing now, probably saying nasty things about you to those they used to say nasty things about. You don't need such people. You are the best and hang out with the best!

Colleagues

* * *
Life provides us with experience in the form of communication with different people. Smoky and not so good or bad. Learn from this lesson and move on. Now you are one situation more experienced! And that's a plus!
* * *
Let it be for you only good lesson and not suffering. Draw conclusions about this person and communicate with him only at work.
* * *
The main thing is to remain a person in this situation, do not act out of spite.
* * *
Don't sink to someone else's level, and don't let other people drag you down.

Relatives

* * *
You will now calm down, because you have already been given the full measure of our sincere sympathy. And now there is no time to cry, the matter is waiting.
* * *
I understand that it is hard to realize his betrayal, but now you see who surrounds you. And you can change that by talking only with the worthy.

Dismissal

In your own words

* * *
Each finish is the start for something completely new.
Everything will be as it should be. Even if it's different.
* * *
I understand how difficult it is for you right now. But you hold on, you're strong (s), you will succeed.
* * *
If you want to discuss something, you can always count on me.
* * *
Everything will definitely be fine. Everything will end well, and if it's not good yet, then this is not the end.
* * *
You are a good worker, you still have everything ahead of you!
* * *
Everything will work out, you will find the job of your dreams, most importantly, take care of your health.
* * *
I can't go through this for you. But I can live it with you. And together we can do everything.
* * *
Chaos and trouble precede great change - remember that.
* * *
Most likely, the problem will not disappear in 24 hours. But in 24 hours your attitude to this problem can change. Let's change this together. You can always count on my help.

In verse

* * *
“She has no chance,” circumstances declared loudly.
"She's a loser," people shouted.
“She will succeed,” God said quietly.
* * *
You will win - I know for sure.
You will get through - I believe in it.
And not bent and not broken
You hits and losses.
Let it be smooth only on paper -
Although there are many trials
You will overcome step by step
All of them! No matter what!

Accident

In your own words

* * *
Honey, you will get better and soon we will run to discos :)
* * *
Everything will be fine, no one is to blame for what happened!
* * *
The guardian angel protects you, because he gave you a chance to live.
* * *
Nothing terrible happened, everyone is alive, and this is the most important thing.
* * *
I'll come to you for tea, bring cookies and heal you :)

In verse

People, cherish every day
Treasure every minute.
We only live once on earth
Rejoice, it's morning again!

God gave life and blessed us,
May we walk on the right path.
After all, it is not in vain that He instilled a soul in us,
To ask later, beyond that threshold.

Live, love, help each other
We must, it cannot be otherwise.
And for this - God's grace,
And spiritually you will become richer.

Years fly by unnoticed
Rejoice and enjoy life!
Do not skimp on kind words
Please everyone and smile more often!

Animal death

Briefly in your own words

* * *
Sorry. It's like losing a loved one. I understand you. Everything will be fine, hold on.
* * *
Just believe that your dog is there - invisibly nearby.
* * *
I understand how you feel, time will pass and you will feel better.
* * *
You've been in worse situations. And nothing, you did it! And you'll be fine, I'm sure!
* * *
Everything will be fine! We will get through this together.
* * *
I can see how dear he was to you, but keep on living.

Find out and help a person who is ill. For him, this is the same as losing a loved one.

Depressed

In your own words

* * *
Believe in the word that there is something to live for. You're just closed to it right now. Time will pass and life will take on colors. Trust me, faith will help this fact happen faster.
* * *
Remember, it won't always be like this. We'll laugh at this together.
* * *
Life is not suffering. It's just that you suffer it instead of living and enjoying it. Remember this as soon as sadness wants to take possession of you.
* * *
Most people are as happy as they allow themselves to be. Allow yourself to be happy.

In verse

Or maybe just get up on the other foot,
And instead of coffee, take and drink juice ...
And turn your usual steps
In the direction where there will be more use ...

And on this day, do everything wrong:
Put from the end to the beginning of the number,
And the most insignificant trifle
Fill with good and high meaning.

And do what no one expects
And laugh where you cried so much
And the feeling of hopelessness will pass
And the sun will rise where the rain dripped.

From the circle wound by fate
Take it and jump out at the station of the unknown...
You will be surprised - the world is completely different,
And life is more unexpected, and more interesting.

Motivating

In your own words

* * *
The fate of the person who sits in the seat does not move either. Go ahead, I believe in you!
* * *
You cannot change the direction of the wind, but you can always raise the sails to reach your goal.
* * *
There is no point in looking for a place where you will feel good. It makes sense to learn how to create it well anywhere ...
* * *
Remember that when you really want something, the whole Universe will help to make your desire come true.

In verse

Look into your eyes again.
Fly forward again.
Just back - you can not.
Everything that has passed does not count.

And it's easy to let go.
Believe: movement is life.
The past is far away
Just don't turn around!

Beloved girlfriend/wife

In your own words

* * *
My love, everything will be fine, you are strong! I'm always there, remember that!
* * *
Honey, you can always rely on me!
* * *
Remember: we ourselves invent problems, barriers, complexes and frameworks for ourselves. Free yourself - breathe life and understand that you can do everything. I love you and that's the main thing.
* * *
You best woman for me all over the world, remember that. Smile and never sour.

* * *
Darling, there will always be people who will hurt you. You have to keep trusting people, just be a little more careful.
* * *
The secret of happiness, my dear, is to enjoy every little thing and not get upset over every stupidity.
* * *
You are the most the best man in the world. And the best will be fine. You just need to be a little patient. Remember - sugar at the bottom. As long as you have me, we can handle it.

In verse

* * *
If only, baby, I could
When it's so hard for you
Substitute two wings on the fly
Under your weary wing.
If I could make it
Disperse the clouds above you
So that you forget all the worries of the day
And peace returned to again.
It's a pity, but I'm just a woman - not God,
My heart is with you, and you hold on.
So that you can withstand the storm,
I pray quietly for your life.
* * *
Who hung their nose so low?
Who is sad for no apparent reason?
So I want you to be happy again
Do not invent stupid things!
Let your mood jump
Look at the colors in life again!
Happiness lies ahead
Well - give me a smile quickly!
* * *



There is no point in any line.

And a glass - for success ahead.

Girlfriend / friend

In your own words

* * *
This world is yours, just be yourself always!
* * *
Remember that you will always be the winner in any situation.
* * *
Any problem must be met with a smile. The problem will think that you are stupid and run away :)
* * *
Tomorrow, the one who reads this SMS will find his happiness :)
* * *
Until tomorrow comes, you will not understand how good you were today. Therefore, believe in the best, and do not give up. You are the most best friend in the world!
* * *
You are the best and true friend I am very glad that I have you.

In verse

* * *
When a tear drips from pain ...
When the heart beats with fear...
When the soul hides from the light...
When all life is torn from grief ...
You sit quietly in silence ...
Close your eyes, and realizing that you are tired ...
Tell yourself alone...
I will be happy! No matter what!
* * *
Each of us has a breaking point
When the heart gets heavy
When we feel like we're falling off a cliff
And life becomes like a black spot ...
Each of us has a ray of hope
And someone very close and dear
Will not let you fall into the abyss
And he will say: "Don't be afraid, I'm with you!"
* * *
Smile! There is no place for sadness
In such a beautiful and young soul.
After all, we are sad, to be honest,
There is no point in any line.
Every day is filled with new happiness
And a glass - for success ahead.
You are capable of many things in life
Just believe, don't give up and wait!

Military

In your own words

* * *
You are doing a great job - protecting your homeland! You are strong, may the guardian angel always be there!
* * *
I'm proud of you, you are my protector! I am warmed by the thought that we will soon meet and be together.
* * *
Honey, you're strong, you can handle it! Remember that my thoughts are always with you! We'll meet soon, remember that.
* * *
For me, the military is an example of courage and strength. Therefore, you have no right to give up, life has rewarded you with a worthy position, which is already in your blood. I believe in you! You are the best!

In verse

* * *
Forget everything, don't fall low
Be brave, be happy, dream
Don't take everything too close
And don't take it at all.
Words are just someone's opinion
They mean nothing.
Be strong in battle and change your mind
At the call of your heart.
* * *
Problems were, are and will be,
You don't have to suffer because of them.
Around there are films, books, people -
Find something to keep yourself busy.
Learn to learn from mistakes
(Of course, better on strangers).
And do not be ashamed of stuffed cones,
Life is like that, where would we be without them
Be a positive person
Love people, love yourself
Fill your life with cheerful laughter
Take a deep breath and ... live!
* * *
Our whole life is just a moment,
Dependent on us.
And from diapers to wrinkles
There is a bridge as long as "now".
And we will remember yesterday,
We want to wait tomorrow...
But heaven has its own game ...
Seven rules and reasons.
Live without breaking them
To save the soul.
When the war ends
You will be appreciated...
No need to look for logic
After all, you can not have time
Kiss relatives,
And sing the song of the heart...

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As long as you are alive, no matter what happens, you have you.

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If you need a helping hand, don't forget that you have two of them.

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It's impossible to help everyone. Help at least those who are infinitely dear to you.

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“The psychologist does not cry, he does not need to. Support and help - why does he need this? ”... Do you think that if we treat other people's souls, we don’t have our own?!

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If a person comes towards you with an outstretched hand, this does not mean that he intends to ask for your mercy, perhaps he is ready to offer you a hand on which you can lean.

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And even if the whole world is against him... and if everyone says that he is wrong... I will still come up, take his hand and stand by his side. And not because he is bad or good ... but because he is a part of my soul ... and I cannot refuse myself.

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There will be everything and ups and downs, the joy of tears and longing in the chest, but believe that there will be good things, you ask, please - BE TERRIBLE.

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Everyone needs support...

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A woman differs from a woman in that she does not need anyone's support. Including the bra.

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Even if it's too empty inside - clench your fists harder. After all, when you are torn to pieces, seeming happy is an art!

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Before saving a friend, make sure that he needs this rescue. Maybe what you consider a disaster this moment for him - good. By interfering, you risk depriving a friend of happiness.
And myself - a friend ...

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But there will definitely be a morning when, throwing back the blanket and looking at the sun outside the window, you will understand that everything is not so bad)) After all, it shines for you!

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Girl, stop making plans for the past, an equally wonderful future awaits you)))

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I realized the mistake, remembered it, supported myself and ... optimistically went further ...

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Very often, men need even more support than women. And where to get it, if you yourself so need a man's shoulder and an affectionate word ...

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Sometimes you don’t want to find out and decide anything, you don’t want to look for options ... you just need a few words of love and support.

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Everything can be overcome. If only close people were nearby!

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Supporting another strengthens himself...

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I have such friends that sometimes I'm ready to shoot them. But if not for them, he would have shot himself a long time ago.

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Real success is when you are supported by people whose eyes you have not even seen.

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Sometimes it is very important that someone pays attention to your mood! no need to console, give advice! enough to notice the very change in this mood!

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Time will tell. Just try to feel the situation. hit and develop the ability. The main thing is to gain knowledge. Support in life. It's good that you care. The comfort and warmth of the hearth provides good support.

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How important it is to have a person nearby who will help in word and deed, support and guide!

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In the end, you will remember not the words of enemies, but the silence of friends.

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It's nice to know that there are people nearby who are ready to stand up for you.

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If I need support, I will buy myself a corset.

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Difficult?! Always difficult! But if there is a supportive and loving person in your life, you can survive everything ... always!!! Hand in hand TOGETHER!!!

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If you see a light ahead, show it to those who are afraid of the dark, let them touch its warmth freezing ...

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I cherish people who are with me in moments of terrible grief, and in moments of immense happiness, but the rest simply do not exist for me!

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The worst thing is when you really need support, and you sit with your phone in your hand and don't know whose number to dial.

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Thank you, Lord, that YOU allowed me to open my soul, and now you save it by opening my eyes ...

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Wisdom seeks to support with a word, to drop stupidity.

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Nowadays, many men would rather trip a woman than a shoulder or a neck!!!

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Support is not to be found in a friend or a cigarette. In myself.

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Kind words always sound like wonderful music to those who have a heavy heart.

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In order to gain spiritual support in old age, you need to cultivate it in your children in time.

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They held hands as they floated to the surface. A good thing friend's hand. It does not oblige the one who holds it out to anything, and it is very comforting to the one who shakes it ...

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If you have nothing to give into the hands of the needy, give something to his heart. One word of support can lift a person out of the darkness of despair.

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How you want to snuggle up to someone and calm down, but all the time you have to substitute your shoulder and calm down.

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That person is valued, putting a hand on whose shoulder, you are sure that you will not fall ...

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In sadness, we become excessively proud. We create the appearance that we don’t need anyone, even though someone else’s hand on our shoulder is so important to us.

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Mom's support is the best sedative)))

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It's just great: to have in your life a person whom you call in a deep depression ... And you hang up with a crazy desire to live!

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People are very fond of reproaching, blaming, drawing wrong conclusions, but you can’t wait for support and simple understanding.

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A husband is a support for his wife, and a wife is a support for her husband.

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Happen in family life disagreements, but one should never plant each other, especially publicly, and strangers must be fought back together. Then everything will be fine!

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Everyone dreams about beautiful love, but few people understand that it does not begin with the words "I, me, mine, I want" but with the question, what can I do for you?

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Never despair. There will always be someone who can support you. The main thing is to be able to see it.

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The best gift from a friend is his presence and support in difficult times.

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Losing balance in life, a woman must quickly find a strong male shoulder - even if she doesn’t hold it, it will be more pleasant to fall)

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By supporting a woman, a man receives approval in return, followed by satisfaction.

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But there is nothing better than hearing from a loved one, when you feel really bad, the phrase: “Don't worry, everything will be fine! 'Cause I'm with you

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Supporting a person in trouble with a kind word is often as important as switching the switch on a railroad track in time: only one inch separates disaster from smooth and safe movement through life.

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A friend is another wing that we sometimes lack ...

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When a wife supports her husband, spreads his wings with her love, he becomes invulnerable.

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“Mercy consists not only in material help, but in the spiritual support of one's neighbor. Spiritual support, first of all, is not in condemning your neighbor, but in respect for his human dignity.

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If from childhood you are afraid to overpraise, then after that there will be no reason ...

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“She has no chance,” circumstances declared loudly.
"She's a loser," people shouted. “She will succeed,” God said quietly.

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How many are willing to teach, how few are able to console.

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Sometimes you sit and rejoice in someone else's happiness, sincerely, without envy ... and it becomes so warm in your soul ...

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I am depressed? No, it's He who is depressed, and I'm with you on the site :)!!!

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Sometimes the people who support us are not the ones we expected to receive support from.

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Hold on tight to the hand sincerely extended to you in a moment of despair. And don't forget to extend yours in return.

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Those who supported me when I fell - now HOLD ON - we are taking off!

Statuses about support

In life, we often face various obstacles. It can be job loss, illness, death of a family member, financial troubles. At such a moment, it is difficult for a person to find the strength in himself and move on. He so lacks support at this moment, a friendly shoulder, warm words. How to choose the right words of support that can really help a person in difficult times?

Expressions that should not be used

There are a number of familiar phrases that are the first to come to mind when you need to support someone. These words should not be spoken:

1. Do not worry!

1. Everything is formed! Everything will be fine!

At the moment when the world collapsed, it sounds like a mockery. A person is faced with the fact that he does not know how to solve his problem. He needs to figure out how to fix things. He is not sure that the situation will turn in his favor, and he will be able to stay afloat. So, how will the empty statement that everything will work out help? All the more blasphemous are such words if your friend has lost a loved one.

1. Do not Cry!

Tears are natural way body to cope with stress. It is necessary to give a person a cry, to speak out, to give vent to emotions. He will feel better. Just hug and be there.

1. No need to cite as an example people who are even worse

A person who has lost his job and has nothing to feed his family does not care that somewhere in Africa children are starving. Someone who has just learned about a serious diagnosis is not very interested in the statistics of deaths from cancer. It is also not necessary to give examples that relate to mutual acquaintances.

Trying to support a loved one, remember that at the moment he is morally depressed by his problem. It is necessary to carefully select expressions so as not to accidentally offend or touch on a sore subject. Let's find out how to support a person.

Words to Help You Get Through the Tipping Point

When our loved ones find themselves in difficult situations, we are lost and often do not know how to behave. But, the words spoken at the right time can inspire, console, restore faith in oneself. The following phrases will help to feel your support:

1. We will get through this together.

In difficult times, it is important to know that you are not alone. Let a loved one feel that you care about his grief and that you are ready to share all the difficulties with him.

1. I understand how you feel.

When you're in trouble, it's important to be heard. It's good to have someone around who understands you. If you have been in a similar situation, please tell us about it. Share your thoughts, emotions at that moment. But no need to tell how you heroically coped with the situation. Just make it clear that you were in your friend's place. But you survived it, and he can handle it too.

1. Time will pass and it will get easier.

Indeed, this is a fact. We will not remember many of the troubles in life that happened to us a year or two ago. All troubles remain in the past. Sooner or later, we find a replacement for a betrayed friend or unhappy love. Financial problems are also gradually being solved. Can be found new job, pay off a loan, cure an illness or relieve its symptoms. Even the sadness of the death of a loved one passes with time. It is important to get over the moment of shock and move on.

1. You've been in worse situations. Nothing, you did it!

Surely your friend has already encountered life's obstacles and found a way out of them. Remind him that he is a strong, courageous person and is able to solve any problem. Cheer him up. Show him that he can survive this difficult moment with dignity.

1. You are not to blame for what happened.

Feeling guilty about what happened is the first thing that prevents you from taking a sober look at the situation. Make it clear close person that the circumstances were so and that anyone else could be in his place. It makes no sense to look for those responsible for the trouble, you need to try to solve the problem.

1. Is there something I can do for you?

Perhaps your friend needs help, but he does not know who to turn to. Or he doesn't feel comfortable talking about it. Take the initiative.

1. Say that you admire his endurance and fortitude.

When a person is morally depressed by difficult circumstances, such words inspire. They are able to restore a person's faith in their own strength.

1. Don't worry, I'll be right there!

These are the most important words that each of us wants to hear at a turning point. Everyone needs someone close and understanding next to them. Do not leave dear person alone!

Help your friend come up with a sense of humor about the situation. Every drama has a bit of comedy. Lighten up the situation. Laugh together at the girl who left him, or at the pompous director who fired him from his job. This will allow you to look at the situation in a more optimistic way. After all, everything can be solved and corrected while we are alive.

The best support is to be there

The main thing we say is not with words, but with our actions. A sincere hug, a handkerchief or napkin served on time, a glass of water can say more than you think.

Take on some of the household chores. Provide all possible assistance. After all, at the moment of shock, a person is not even able to cook dinner, go to the grocery store, pick up children from kindergarten. If your friend has lost a family member, help arrange the funeral. Make the necessary arrangements and just be there.

Smoothly switch the person's attention to something mundane, not related to his grief. Keep him busy with something. Invite to the cinema, order pizza. Find an excuse to go outside and take a walk.

Sometimes silence is better than any, even the most sincere words. Listen to your friend, let him speak, express his emotions. Let him talk about his pain, about how he is confused, depressed. Don't interrupt him. Let him speak his problem out loud as many times as necessary. This will help to look at the situation from the outside, to see solutions. And you just be close to a loved one in a difficult moment for him.

Olga, St. Petersburg

What to do when the mood is at zero ... when you give up ... when you don’t see where to go and you want to quit everything ... once and for all.

Know that even in this moment you are NOT ALONE. There are a LOT of people like you. There really are a LOT of us!

So different, so unlike... and yet I = YOU. YOU = I.

We offer you 20 quotes famous people as support and inspiration on your way! YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

1. "If you're always in a hurry, you might miss a miracle." Lewis Carroll

2. "Believe in the fact that there is something to live for, and your faith will help this fact to come true." William James

3. "To reach the goal, you must first go." Honore de Balzac

4. "The biggest mistake you can make in life is the constant fear of being wrong." Elbert Hubbard

5. “What is the purpose of man? Be him." Stanislav Lets

6. "Knowledge is a treasure trove, but the key to it is practice." Fuller Thomas

7. “Life is not suffering. It's just that you suffer from it instead of living and enjoying it." Dan Millman

8. "The fate of the person who sits in the seat does not move either." Philip Farmer

9. “There is no point in looking for a place where you will feel good. It makes sense to learn how to create it well anywhere ... "

10. "You can't change the direction of the wind, but you can always raise the sails to reach your goal." Oscar Wilde

11. “When you feel very bad, raise your head. You will definitely see the sunshine." Drew Barrymore

12. “While we pedal and steer towards the goal, it is important not to forget about the beauty that opens before us every day.” Paulo Coelho

13. "Life is beautiful when you create it yourself." Sophie Marceau

14. “When you really want something, the whole Universe will contribute to making your desire come true.” Paulo Coelho

15. "Forgiveness doesn't change the past, but frees the future."

16. “This world is like an echo in the mountains: if we give up anger, anger returns; if we give love, love returns.” Osho

17. “Most people are only as happy as they choose to be.” Abraham Lincoln

18. “You can only see what you believe. Believe and you will see." Wayne Dyer

19. “You won’t see the most important thing; only the heart is vigilant." Antois De Saint Exupery

20. “The goal of every person’s life is to become as happy as possible. Happiness is the goal to which all other goals are reduced. » Deepak Chopra

Many thanks to my Vkontakte administrator Natalya Bukhovtseva for such a wonderful selection of quotes!