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Online dating is quite common today. Many people are embarrassed to meet people in person, so this is a great way out for them. To build pleasant and long-lasting virtual communication, young people should know how to interest a girl by correspondence.

What to write to interest a girl?

Meeting a girl in a chat is not at all difficult. Men need to show charisma and mental acuity. Mastery of certain tricks will certainly help you achieve success.

To begin with, young people should advantageously provide information about themselves on their personal page on a social network or on a dating site. Photos hugging other girls or selfies while drunk would be completely unnecessary.

It is also necessary to carefully fill out the questionnaire, since the information indicated in it can either intrigue the correspondence girl or repel her. First of all, ladies will be interested in the following data of a potential interlocutor:

age;
Family status;
interests;
photos.

To hook a girl by correspondence, you should add to your portfolio photographs taken in the family circle and in public places such as theaters or museums. This will create a positive impression.

In the first message of correspondence, think carefully about what to write to the girl in order to interest her. Don't use cliched phrases like: “Hi, beautiful, how are you?” or “What are you doing? Maybe we can talk?” A detailed message text will help arouse interest in your person: “Good afternoon/evening, I am fascinated by your eyes. Your look fascinated me, and I couldn’t help but write.”
At the same time, write sincerely and in your own words, without using verbatim example messages, this is unlikely to interest the girl. With further possible communication, a different style of speech will become obvious, and deception will be unpleasantly surprising.
Be honest about your intention to get acquainted and note the commonality of your interests. This is possible if you are both members of communities of like-minded people on social networks. General topics of conversation will give communication a feeling of lightness and ease.
Ask if the girl has time that she is willing to devote to a conversation with you. When you receive a positive response, be sincerely happy about it.
Pay attention to the photographs of your interlocutor. Be sure to note her visual attractiveness. Such compliments will be pleasant for ladies of any age.
Talk about yourself frankly, but at the same time maintaining intrigue. Understatement will provoke the girl to ask counter questions that will help start a conversation.

In any conversation, politeness is a man’s main weapon. And if earlier you had no idea how to interest a girl by correspondence on VK, now with her help building a relationship will not seem impossible.

In order not to scare off the person you like in the first minutes of the conversation, you should not ask:

about personal life;
family composition;
earnings.

Such questions from strangers may cause reluctance to continue communication.

Example messages

The features of the correspondence you organize depend on the goal you set for yourself. If you want to woo a girl so that you can meet her in real life in the future, do not rush to ask her for her phone number. Not all people are ready to share personal information about themselves with a superficial acquaintance. In addition, it is worth assessing the degree of shyness of your interlocutor, since she may not dare to talk to you on the phone.

In your messages, try using a combination of compliment and interest at the same time. For example:

"Good afternoon! It is impossible to take my eyes off your photos. You are probably even more beautiful in real life? I'm sure I'm not the first to notice this."
"Hello. You have a very interesting and beautiful page. They probably tell you this often.”
“I saw you in the group. You produce very pleasant impression. Is it possible to continue communication?

You should not be assertive and intrusive from the first lines. Give the girl the opportunity to evaluate your personality. Use emoticons that reflect your emotions. They will add liveliness to the conversation.

If they answer you, do not keep your interlocutor waiting. This is bad form. In further conversation, demonstrate your sense of humor, which will cheer you both up:

“What time should I start getting ready for a date?”
“You’ll see, for the rest of the day you’ll remember and think only about me!”

It is worth gradually and quietly persuading the girl to meet in person. The first step towards this goal is to ask for your phone number. How to do it correctly and not get rejected? Try citing the fact that you rarely visit your profile on a social network/chat, preferring real life virtual communication.

Invite your interlocutor to go to the cinema or park together: “I would like you to watch this film too. For this reason, I'm ready to go to the movies again. Leave me your phone number and we will arrange a meeting.”

If a girl refuses a request or ignores it, do not put pressure on her. Take the conversation in a different direction, creating the impression that correspondence on the Internet does not oblige the girl you are interested in to anything. After waiting for a pause, ask this question again, citing your busyness and reluctance to part: “Thank you for your time. It's such a pity that I have to go about my business. Maybe you’ll still leave your phone number, otherwise I rarely come here?” Perseverance and interest young man must touch the young lady.

Please point out to the girl that communicating via SMS is a step towards getting closer: “I’m very glad that we met. Now I can always answer when you are bored or sad.”

Don't drag out the conversation for months. Try to gain the girl's trust and invite her on a date. After all, only a personal meeting will help you understand how interesting a person really is to you.

A girl can be interested in her hobbies, appearance, cultural manners, scientific achievements, and demonstration of material wealth (cars, vacations, gadgets).
Your own material source will raise you as a potential candidate in the eyes of a girl.

Before writing to a lady, filter your page in in social networks, remove:

All obscene statements;
Subscriptions to dating sites;
Photos with other girls;
Photos with alcohol and cigarettes;
All hints of humiliation of the honor and dignity of lovely ladies;
Clear the personal information column from the interests “Drinking beer with friends.”

Cheerful photographs;
Photos from sports activities;
Subscribe to business publics:
Record the presence of the car;
Promote family values(publicly thank your parents for their contribution to your upbringing).

The peak of the girl's tenderness will be yours family photos with mother or grandmother.

Having created the account of a respectable and honest young man, proceed to charm the girl you like. Pay attention to whether the young lady is burdened with relationships. Photos together with another guy will confirm them love story. Don't bother a busy young lady, write to someone else.

What to write on VKontakte

An unobtrusive technique for a feasible and shy guy - “like”. Heart at the bottom of a photo or post. Stands for “I like.” A response like means that a girl is interested or has viewed your profile. When you receive a response, write “Hello” and add a compliment or praise.

Where to start communication

Don’t start communication with the notorious phrase “Hello, let’s get to know each other,” it sounds trivial and hackneyed, and madam’s self-esteem instantly soars. Even if no one paid attention to her for six months. It’s worth taking a pause, building up the intrigue, so you can interest them through correspondence in contact. The best option- say hello, adding a compliment. Text her: “Hey, you're cute,” point to appearance girls:

Cute;
Attractive;
Darling;
Charming;
Charming.
Gorgeous;

You can start a correspondence with a girl on VKontakte with the following words:

“Hello, I saw you recently, I would like to chat,” the phrase is relevant for people with a common place of study, work, and recreation.
“Hello, the stars told me that I would meet a breathtaking girl, and it seems that I have found her” if you don’t know the madam, but you want to start communicating.
“Hi, I see you love me too.? (indicate the specific musical style, hobby, hobby that the girl is engaged in). An option for like-minded people.
“Assalamu alaikum beautiful” - if the girl is Muslim.
“Peace to your home madam, I see you and I will find mutual language"- For clear girls. Students of law universities and colleges will understand you; slang phrases are actively used in these institutions.
“Hello, you really struck me with your beauty, will you pay attention to me?” - A standard, frequently used tackle, quite acceptable.

Compliments are a kind of delight for the ears and set the mood for positivity. As a result, the beautiful half of humanity gets wet, and the receptivity to further communication grows before our eyes. Don't point at positive features character (kind, affectionate, sociable, cheerful), without having a personal acquaintance with the lady.

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How to behave

Watch your tongue. If girls openly stick out their body parts (stomach, chest, legs, butt). Fashionable to have big ass, in combination with thin waist. If you notice that this person has photographs from a butt angle, feel free to praise her. Don’t focus on the breasts, it sounds vulgar and ambiguous, the goal is to interest her, not to scare her away. Don't text her “Wow! Nice breasts."

Makes courtship easier - praise. Add that her proportions are standard, they are rare and she is a unique person. Apart from the body, guys for the most part do not notice small details, breathtaking eye color or a gorgeous smile. Focus on the details, it’s incredibly nice to hear these compliments. Preview the young lady’s profile on a social network; having similar interests brings people together; write to her about it: “Hi, I accidentally came across your page, you have amazing taste in music.” She is fascinated, and you have attracted the interest of the pen pal. The next step will be to consider how to attract her attention.

How to attract a girl's attention

A friend request from a guy allows you to attract the attention of a pen pal. After writing to her, proceed to active actions. Ladies mostly pay attention to:

Unusual appearance;
Unusual hobbies or activities;
Wallet overflowing with banknotes;
Athletic figure;
Talent;
Intelligence and creativity;
Popularity.

The unusual appearance comes from nature (freckles, rare skin tone, shape and eye color). Lacking natural zest, it is created artificially: dyed hair, piercings, tattoos. Combined with a pumped up torso, he looks bomb.

Indicate your hobbies in your profile and take a couple of photos for clarity. Don't invent things that don't exist. One photo from gym will be clearer than monotonous text about growing biceps muscles.

Money. Yes, ladies like guys with unlimited wallets. Put an equal sign between money and girls. Photos from resorts, expensive cars, gadgets will indicate material wealth. Create an illusion beautiful life with the help of photographs, her interest will go through the roof.

Beautiful body, pumped up muscles stand out against the backdrop of seedy candidates. Having a toned figure, women will pay attention to you. Guys, dare to take the first step

What talent do you need to have to attract a girl's attention? Anyone. A clear voice, acting talent, and developed hand motor skills will be a plus.

An analytical mind is perfectly comparable to business, clever guy with money a real find.

Popularity is expressed in a significant number of friends. A prominent personality, arousing wild delight with his appearance in any company, impresses young ladies.

The lady has the right to refuse the president, calm down, the women haven’t ended with her.

The refusal is expressed in the following form:

I don’t get to know each other and don’t communicate.
Have a boyfriend.
Ignoring.
Blacklisting.

How to start a conversation

Women's psychology is such that you can attract the attention of your interlocutor by starting to ask her questions, take an interest in her hobbies and life. By paying attention to a specific person, you automatically focus their gaze on you. A woman is pleased to know that she has attracted attention. Get to know her:

Place of study/work.
Hobbies.
Attitude to activities and events of interest.
Future plans.
Travel or vacation (planned or actual).

If a conversation starts during the conversation, ask about her political views, pets, attitude to the situation in the country, or discuss the price of gasoline. But the next step.

Write to her: “I accidentally found your page, you’re cute.” The response is mostly one of gratitude. Take courage and ask her a banal but informative question: “Do you want to chat?” If the answer is positive, I can congratulate you, you have interested the lady and attracted her attention. A negative answer is a categorical reluctance to get acquainted.

What to ask a girl

While corresponding, ask the young lady about her studies, work, hobbies, plans for the future, find out about her travels. Show initiative and show interest.

Studies

Ask the girl questions:

Where are you studying?
What course?
Is it difficult to study?
Are you studying budgeting or commerce?
Do you like your chosen specialty?
What is your form of study?
Do you like it educational process?
How do you communicate with the team?
Are you planning to go to graduate school?
Where do you plan to work after studying?
How do you get to the university (college)?
How long is the journey?
You must be very tired?

The logical order of questions has been preserved, do not clutter the dialogue with a bunch of questions, choose 2 - 3 you like. Ask, throw away embarrassment.

Job

Extensive topic for conversation. It is relevant everywhere, everyone is discussing the work, don’t shy away from it, ask a couple professional issues.

List of working questions:

Where do you want to work?
Have you ever thought about opening your own business?
What do you want to do next?
Where do you work?
How much pay?
Would you like to make money from your hobby?
Do you have hobbies that generate income?
Whatever you choose, work at an enterprise you don’t like with high wages, or do what you love, but for pennies?

Pay attention to the girl’s answer, here you will find out how important money is to her.

Hobbies

Interesting person do his favorite activities. Having learned about a hobby, it is possible to draw up an approximate description and identify the dominant character traits.

Give her a few to choose from. the following questions:

Do you have favorite hobby?
What do you do in free time?
It would be interesting to hear about your hobby
How do you feel about sports?
What's better, physical activity or creative activity?
What kind of music do you listen to?

Travel or vacation

Traveling is useful and necessary for the sake of new sensations, emotions, interesting stories. Touch on this topic, it is fresh and relevant.

Select a couple of questions from an “avid traveler”:

Have you been abroad?
How many countries have you visited?
Where did you like it the most?
Which Russian cities have you been to?
What can you say about. (city you visited)
What do you prefer, active or passive recreation?
How do you feel about outdoor recreation?
Did you like the sea sunset?
Have you ever flown on an airplane?
What's your longest flight?
Where did you like the most?
Where would you like to go?

Choose, improvise, ask the girl questions.

Future plans

Interesting a girl by correspondence and having a further relationship with her are two different things. A young man must evaluate real prospects further communication with a beauty.

Questions of a vague future:

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
Would you like to move to another country?
Which position excites you the most?
Are you planning to move to another city?

What to write to make you interested

We have already figured out how to attract a girl’s attention and what to ask her about. The interest of a nice woman is half the job done. The young man, collecting information about her, subsequently talks about himself.

Ways to interest a pen pal:

Tell her about your strengths;
Show your skills and abilities;
Charm with a sense of humor;
Having an athletic build, she will be interested in you herself;
Talk about your achievements.

Showing yourself off best side, you increase your chances. Tell us about your achievements, sports awards, career successes, titles and any merits.

Skills and abilities. Any acquired skill arouses interest. Demonstrate skills using video or photographs. The ability to show tricks will impress the beauty for a long time, and she will want to continue communication.

A sense of humor is valued throughout life. The ability to make funny jokes is worth its weight in gold. Humor brings a smile, laughter, fun, saves you from adversity, and lifts your spirits. A good sense of humor achieves a girl's affection and interest.

Having a beautiful, toned body confirmed by photos on social networks, girls will begin to be interested in you. An athletic body is half the success. They pay attention to handsome guys and agree to meet them.

Remember, simplicity and sincerity are your trump cards. Pathos, excessive self-confidence, and boastfulness will play a negative role. Simple, kind and sympathetic young people evoke more sympathy than pretentious alphas.

How to keep a conversation going

Express your thoughts openly, ask questions, and be an active participant in the conversation. Talk to the young lady, answer her questions. Activate the getter mode.

Keep the conversation going:

Listen to your interlocutor, asking questions along the way;
Answer with polysyllabic phrases;
Get to the heart of the conversation;
Submit original topics;
Give examples from life;
Make jokes, activate your charm;
Tell us about your personality and hobbies;
Use the principle of simplicity and openness;
Don't brag about your love affairs.

By mutually expressing their thoughts, a man and a woman understand whether they are interesting to each other. If a stream of uninteresting information is pouring into your ears, think about stopping the correspondence. Having found general theme for conversation, but embarrassed to be misunderstood, hint about embarrassment to the girl. Constraint does not cause aggression or misunderstanding, but rather a kind of benevolence. Don't be afraid to be a confident and courageous person. Relationships with the opposite sex will bind you throughout your life.

The essence of maintaining a conversation is interest in your interlocutor, and giving topics for conversation if the past has exhausted itself.

How to intrigue a girl

Charisma, feeling self-esteem, confidence and easy courage in communication will intrigue your madam. Here are a couple more ways to surprise your friend:

Find out her phone number without asking the girl;
Find out where she lives (leave a note or flower at the door);
“Accidentally” cross paths with her on the street;
Invite her friends for a planned meeting;
Create a photo collage with her photos;

In specific ways, you will make the girl nervous. Intrigue bordering on madness. Use advice in hopeless situations. There is a high risk of being branded as a stalker. Carefully, unobtrusively, use one of the methods. The least shocking ideas would be with photos and a call with unknown number. Don't overdo it with intrigue.

Guys! Gather all your courage, add some coolness and go win women's hearts! Throw it away bad habits, go in for sports, promote your ideas and there will be no end to beauties.

Good day, dear readers. Today we will talk about how to interest a girl by correspondence on social media. networks. You will learn which topics are the most relevant in this matter. You will learn how not to start communicating on the Internet with your beautiful chosen one. Get to know concrete examples start of dialogue. You will learn valuable rules for communicating on social networks with a representative of the opposite sex.

Good topics for communication

Questions to interest a girl should concern neutral topics and should not affect her personality or appearance in any way.

You can find out what the girl’s plans are for the weekend. Such a question will allow you to escape from everyday life and mentally move to the near future. Such conversations allow you to relax and improve your mood.
Discussion of film premieres. This way you can find out what interests the girl. Ask her about her opinion on the acting and the quality of new films. There is no need to prove your point of view.
Ask the girl what interests her, besides work or study, what she enjoys in her free time. Tell her about yours. Perhaps you have something in common.
Ask what her plans are for the future, where she plans to be in a year or five. Perhaps the girl dreams very much about something. Who knows, you might be able to make her wishes come true.

Common mistakes

Every guy should know with what questions he can arouse a girl’s indignation and create hostility towards his person. Let's look at what mistakes young people most often make when starting to communicate with the opposite sex on the Internet.

Banality. If a young man begins his dialogue with the phrase “Hello, how are you?” or “...what are you doing now?”, then the girl can simply ignore such a message.
Presence in speech swear words or slang expressions. It's a rare girl who will respond to an uncultured man. If your chosen one does not respond to messages or sends you to hell, this is not a reason to write insults and call her names.
Hints of intimacy. This includes compliments towards the girl’s figure when inheriting a photograph, and the desire to look at her in person. A similar statement on initial stage communication will be negatively perceived by the girl.
Availability grammatical errors. Girls don't like to communicate with guys who write poorly.
The use of fake pages is unacceptable. The girl will not contact a person whose account does not have personal photos, but instead a photo of a car or a photo of some celebrity. And, if also, then this will alert the chosen one, she will not want to communicate with such a person.
Never throw out all your problems, failures in your personal life on a girl, don’t talk about your illnesses, don’t make yourself look like a loser.
There is no need to embellish yourself, deceive your interlocutor, or act feignedly. It is important to understand that sooner or later everything secret will become clear.

Examples

Let's look at what phrases you can use to start your dialogue with the girl you like on a social network.

Hello! You look irresistible, in my opinion, you nice girl! I would be very glad to talk more closely.
Hello! Your photos amazed me, you are so cute! I wonder what you are like in real life?
Hello! You have such cool photos, there’s probably no end to your fans?
Hello! How do you feel about dating online?
Hello! My name is Nikita, I would really like to meet you.
Good evening, Elena! I noticed your account and couldn’t pass it by. I noticed that we have common hobbies, namely origami. We will definitely have something to talk about.

You can decide which phrase is better to start a conversation personally in each individual case. It is important that the girl notices that you are interested in communicating with her.

Let's look at a possible example of the first dialogue:

Hello Alena! My name is Igor. I noticed your avatar and was blinded by your smile. So I decided to meet.
Hello Igor! Thank you for such a compliment.
I noticed that you are also interested in rock music.
Yes! I love Linkin Park!

Another example dialogue:

Hello, Ira! I came across your page while searching for the hashtag “travel”. I avid tourist. I would be interested in communicating with a like-minded person.
Hello! I'm glad you wrote to me. Few of my friends share the same views on life.
It would be interesting to chat on the phone or meet. Surely you have many fascinating stories in store.
Why not. I'm not against such communication.

When thinking about what to write to your beloved on the Internet, tell her about your active life. Write down how you spend your free time. Great if you play sports.
Your correspondence must be active. But this does not mean that you need to be intrusive and constantly write something to your chosen one, especially if she. You need to maintain virtual contact. Be a good storyteller. Try not to disappear from the network for a long time so as not to lose communication with her.
Show interest in her activity on the page. Comment on photos, like, pay attention to what she is interested in. When communicating, do not forget to be interested in events in Everyday life, in real.
Amaze with your talents. Tell your beloved about your hobby. If you are excellent at creating art in a graphics editor, send screenshots of your work. If you have mastered the guitar skillfully, record your playing and send it to the girl as an attachment to the message.
Try to be unusual and unpredictable. Today you can behave seriously, but tomorrow there will be mischief.
Your communication should be easy and relaxed.
If you want to know how to interest a girl in VK, then you need to maintain intrigue and understatement. You may deliberately not talk about some moments in your life, hinting that over time, in a personal meeting, she will find out about everything. This great option for those chosen ones who are very curious and try to find out how they can more information about your pen pal.
Surprise with your sense of humor. Make a girl smile on the other side of the blue screen.
Before you think about what to ask a girl to interest her, you need to make sure that your page on a social network impresses her good impression. Analyze your account, remove all unnecessary information. Review all your photos, keep only the best ones. It is unacceptable for photos with other girls to appear, especially with those you hug.
Ask questions more often, but only adequate ones, those that the chosen one herself wants to answer.
Add emoticons to your virtual communication. They will add liveliness.
Try to act like a girl. If your chosen one responds instantly to your message, then do the same. If she for a long time is silent, and only then writes his answer; there is no need to rush with your message. Never sit waiting for a message from your chosen one. Continue to live, mind your own business.
If you are curious how to understand what interests a girl, then she herself will begin to show interest, ask various questions and hint at a possible meeting outside the virtual world.
If you have been chatting on a social network for quite some time, you can arouse curiosity in your interlocutor. When communicating, always leave something unsaid. If she asks questions, methodically avoid answering. For example, you can talk about how you visited a super place the other day. The girl will be interested in which one. And you write that she will find out about him when she personally goes there on a date. Don't forget to specify that, for example, she should be wearing comfortable shoes. This will intrigue the chosen one even more.
If you notice that you have sufficiently interested your girlfriend, then you can try to proceed to the next step, talking to her about a personal meeting. It is better to do this some time after the start of the correspondence. If the young lady refuses, you should not immediately get upset or blacklist the girl. You will continue to be able to communicate with her. It is possible that the girl will eventually agree to meet with you, and perhaps she will be the first to take a step.

Now you know what you can do to interest your beloved while communicating on the Internet. Keep the girl's interests in mind. There is no need to ask questions that will make her blush. Never be disingenuous and do not impersonate another person if the young lady is really dear to you.

The modern rhythm of life dictates its own conditions. Increasingly, face-to-face meetings are being replaced by online communication. It allows you not only to get to know a person, but in many cases it becomes the first step to a serious relationship.

How to make a girl fall in love with you through correspondence, how difficult it is and what basic principles should be followed - we will consider further.

In contact with

Finding the same one on the World Wide Web is not so easy. There are a number of features of communication on the Internet that both complicate and facilitate the solution of the problem of how to make a girl fall in love with you via correspondence.

Anonymity. The minimum set of information presented on social networks is not enough to understand a person’s character. The user may hide information or deliberately distort it. In addition, the difficulty of such communication lies in the fact that it is sometimes difficult.
Peculiarities of perception. Information received about a girl during correspondence is perceived through stereotypes and presets. Often the image of a partner does not coincide with his real personality; it is embellished and exalted. This can become a barrier when contacting outside the network. The girl may even have a special attitude towards her interlocutor.
Lack of emotionality. Some phrases may be perceived incorrectly due to untransmitted emotional overtones.
Contact/voluntariness. Finding a girl to communicate on social networks is possible quickly and easily. Most often, representatives of the fair sex themselves are ready to communicate, but they can just as quickly interrupt it.
Creation of "image". The girl on her page strives to create different images. Some people want to seem like a good housewife and post recipes, while others like the “Turgenev girl” and quotes from the classics. This does not exclude the possibility that in life she only makes sandwiches, but read last time a fairy tale about Kolobok.

It is almost impossible to determine true character traits, interests and behavior only through messages. That is why virtual relationships are also a risk.

How to meet people online?

Before you make a girl fall in love with you through correspondence, you need to find this same girl. For this it is possible:

Add her as a friend. This is the simplest and most ingenious way. If the girl accepted the application, then the first step towards success has already been taken.
Communication on forums or in groups. This allows you to find your other half with similar interests. In addition, having started communication in such communities, you can later move to personal messages immediately at a new level.
Register on a dating site. Nowadays, not all girls are waiting for the first step, but are actively looking for their prince. An attractive photo and an intriguing profile can attract attention to a young man.

How to interest your interlocutor?

After the acquaintance has taken place, it is necessary to warm up and maintain interest in oneself. This is possible if:

Have similar interests or hobbies. It is much easier for people who have long and hopelessly loved the same music, travel or books to find a common language. Besides, there are always topics to talk about.
Show attention to her personality. When looking for an answer to the question of how to make a girl fall in love with you on VK, you can find a simple answer - talk about her. Representatives of the fair sex love to discuss themselves, their character and hobbies. The main thing is to know when to stop and not make your correspondence a one-man show.
Show her your best sides. Even if there are no points of contact, the principle that opposites attract has not been canceled by anyone.

By revealing new things to her, you can become not only a couple, but also find a new ally for the implementation of crazy ideas.

How to make a girl fall in love with you via correspondence?

In order to awaken tender feelings in her, it is important to understand what can be written and what should not be written. It's very easy to scare off a girl online, so you need to be patient and careful.

How to conduct a dialogue correctly?

How to make a girl fall in love with you via correspondence on VKontakte or another social network:

Write correctly. Nobody likes mistakes, missing punctuation marks and incorrect speech patterns.
To be polite. Do not use profanity or disrespectful words.
Use emoticons sparingly. Their excess looks ridiculous.
Writing is fickle. Regular communication will develop a habit and she will start to get bored.
Give compliments. A kind word, as you know, is also pleasant for a cat. Girls, in fact, cannot live without compliments.
Respect her interests and desires. Ask questions about her life, friends, dog.
Be sincere. The best way- be real. There is no need to be a hypocrite, lie or exaggerate.

What should you not write?

What to avoid in online communication:

Obsessiveness. Excessive attention can be intimidating.
“Thick” hints about continuation and regular intimate conversations. In some cases, the girl starts them herself, but it’s not worth constantly being the initiator of this topic exclusively.
About your exes. Not everyone is interested in stories about past relationships, especially since there is no need to speak negatively about girls with whom relationships have ended.

Of course, many guys know how to make a girl fall in love with them through correspondence; examples of such relationships can be found at every step. However, full-fledged feelings are not able to develop within the Internet. Sooner or later, communication must be transferred to real world. There are many ways to win a girl in person. You can read about how to behave with a girl in order to interest her, for example, at school.

Useful video

It is impossible to give a definite answer to the question: “How to make a girl through correspondence fall in love with you?” All girls are different: some are attracted to music, some to travel, and some to cooking. It is clear that the topics for conversation will also be different. But it definitely won’t hurt to use the general tips from the video:

Conclusion

It is impossible to fall in love with a girl following a certain algorithm. But there are several signs by which you can understand that she still likes you. More details about them -.
Being real, sincere, caring - these are the main secrets to success in relationships, both in life and online.

Before writing to a lady, filter your page on social networks, delete:

All obscene statements;
Subscriptions to dating sites;
Photos with other girls;
Photos with alcohol and cigarettes;
All hints of humiliation of the honor and dignity of lovely ladies;
Clear the personal information column from the interests “Drinking beer with friends.”

Cheerful photographs;
Photos from sports activities;
Subscribe to business publics:
Record the presence of the car;
Promote family values (publicly thank your parents for their contribution to your upbringing).

The peak of a girl's affection will be your family photos with your mother or grandmother.

Having created the account of a respectable and honest young man, proceed to charm the girl you like. Pay attention to whether the young lady is burdened with relationships. Photos together with another guy will confirm their love story. Don't bother a busy young lady, write to someone else.

What to write on VKontakte

Where to start communication

Don’t start communication with the notorious phrase “Hello, let’s get to know each other,” it sounds trivial and hackneyed, and madam’s self-esteem instantly soars. Even if no one paid attention to her for six months. It’s worth taking a pause, building up the intrigue, so you can interest them through correspondence in contact. The best option is to say hello with a compliment. Write to her: “Hi, you’re cute,” pointing to the girl’s appearance:

Cute;
Attractive;
Darling;
Charming;
Charming.
Gorgeous;

You can start a correspondence with a girl on VKontakte with the following words:

“Hello, I saw you recently, I would like to chat,” the phrase is relevant for people with a common place of study, work, and recreation.
“Hello, the stars told me that I would meet a breathtaking girl, and it seems that I have found her” if you don’t know the madam, but you want to start communicating.
“Hi, I see you love me too.? (indicate the specific musical style, hobby, hobby that the girl is engaged in). An option for like-minded people.
“Assalamu alaikum beautiful” - if the girl is Muslim.
“Peace to your home madam, I see that you and I will find a common language” - For clear girls. Students of law universities and colleges will understand you; slang phrases are actively used in these institutions.
“Hello, you really struck me with your beauty, will you pay attention to me?” - A standard, frequently used tackle, quite acceptable.

Compliments are a kind of delight for the ears and set the mood for positivity. As a result, the beautiful half of humanity gets wet, and the receptivity to further communication grows before our eyes. Do not point out positive character traits (kind, affectionate, sociable, cheerful) without knowing the lady personally.

How to behave

Watch your tongue. If girls openly stick out their body parts (stomach, chest, legs, butt). It is fashionable to have a big butt, combined with a thin waist. If you notice that this person has photographs from a butt angle, feel free to praise her. Don’t focus on the breasts, it sounds vulgar and ambiguous, the goal is to interest her, not to scare her away. Don't text her “Wow! Nice breasts."

How to attract a girl's attention

A friend request from a guy allows you to attract the attention of a pen pal. After writing to her, proceed to active actions. Ladies mostly pay attention to:

Unusual appearance;
Unusual hobbies or activities;
Wallet overflowing with banknotes;
Athletic figure;
Talent;
Intelligence and creativity;
Popularity.

Indicate your hobbies in your profile and take a couple of photos for clarity. Don't invent things that don't exist. One photo from the gym will be more clear than a monotonous text about growing biceps muscles.

Money. Yes, ladies like guys with unlimited wallets. Put an equal sign between money and girls. Photos from resorts, expensive cars, gadgets will indicate material wealth. Create the illusion of a beautiful life with the help of photographs, her interest will go through the roof.

A beautiful body and pumped up muscles stand out against the backdrop of seedy candidates. Having a toned figure, women will pay attention to you. Guys, dare to take the first step

What talent do you need to have to attract a girl's attention? Anyone. A clear voice, acting talent, and developed hand motor skills will be a plus.

An analytical mind is perfectly compatible with business, a smart guy with money, a real find.

Popularity is expressed in a significant number of friends. A prominent personality, arousing wild delight with his appearance in any company, impresses young ladies.

The lady has the right to refuse the president, calm down, the women haven’t ended with her.

The refusal is expressed in the following form:

I don’t get to know each other and don’t communicate.
Have a boyfriend.
Ignoring.
Blacklisting.

How to start a conversation

Place of study/work.
Hobbies.
Attitude to activities and events of interest.
Future plans.
Travel or vacation (planned or actual).

If a conversation starts during the conversation, ask about her political views, pets, attitude to the situation in the country, or discuss the price of gasoline. But the next step.

What to ask a girl

While corresponding, ask the young lady about her studies, work, hobbies, plans for the future, find out about her travels. Show initiative and show interest.