How to find out the thoughts of a person and what he hides. Why do many team up in pairs not with "their" people. Help of the dark forces in the capture of the sorcerer

". It tells about a world in which no one knew how to lie. Once, something broke in the brain of one inhabitant of this world, and he uttered the first lie. In order not to spoil the impression of the film, I will not tell you further and I advise you to watch it to find out how our world could look without lies.

And since there are more than enough lies and deceit in the real world, here are a few ways to deal with them and bring a person you don’t trust to clean water.

Observe a person in a critical situation

When a person has to act in a critical situation, he cannot dissemble or play. He doesn't have the ability to use masks and will most certainly act as his instincts dictate.

People who have been offended by life, most often break down on the attendants. Waiters, cleaners, salespeople - they all get it. If a person whistles or snaps his fingers to the waiter, this is the first sign that your interlocutor is an idiot.

Watch your body language and intonation

It's easy to find. Liars can be recognized by several signs:

1. Pauses in conversation.
2. Averting eyes when answering a question.
3. Change of topic of conversation.
4. They make excuses even when you don't blame them.
5. Often touching the face.

Of course, you should not overdo it and follow every gesture of the interlocutor. But sometimes this little cheat sheet helps bring to light.

Gossip about mutual friends

We love gossip more or less. And, unfortunately, we often do not know the measures in them. Gossiping about common acquaintances, you will see with your own eyes how much shit can pour out of a seemingly good person.

Lend or borrow money

And although we have already talked about what is the last thing you should think about, but by borrowing or lending money to a person, you can learn a lot about him.

Go on a trip together

extreme way. If you are already thinking about how to bring a person to clean water, then going on a trip with him is not the most best idea. But, after spending some time alone, you will see all his cockroaches.

Tell a secret

By telling a secret, you test a person's ability to keep secrets. If you don't trust him, then you can tell a trifling secret or a made-up secret, just to see if he runs to retell it further.

Have there been situations in your life when you needed to understand what a person really is? How did you do?

The appearance of a person can give out certain personal characteristics and preferences! How?

We hear a lot about not judging a book by its cover. But in relation to people, things are somewhat different. The appearance of a person can give out certain personal characteristics and preferences.

All that is required is the ability to correctly interpret them. As in the previous cases, the methods described below are not 100% accurate, and there is always the possibility of their error. Nonetheless…

1. Shoes can reveal a person's personality type.

Let's note right away that we are not talking about the obvious, such as goths or metalheads in black boots, hippies in sandals or hipsters in old curtains wrapped around their legs. According to science, a person's shoes can tell about his relationship with other people.

A study conducted at a couple of colleges revealed certain patterns in how people choose shoes. Of course, she could not tell about political preferences, but she gave out a ton of other personal information, including potential insecurity and dependence in close relationships. Here are just a few of the examples described by science:

• Restless and dependent people prefer to wear new and well-maintained shoes to calm their nerves.
• People who wear practical shoes tend to be relatively pleasant to talk to.
• Calm and collected individuals find pleasure in seemingly uncomfortable shoes.
• And aggressive personalities tend to wear uniform boots with berets to the ankles.

If, after reading this, you thought that your shoes can’t tell anything so personal about you, since when buying you are guided, say, by its price and convenience, then do not forget that your way of thinking is natural for a certain type of personality. And that's the whole point. Regardless of what logic you follow when choosing certain shoes, boots or boots, you follow exactly the logic that matches your personality type. And the purchase reveals this type to the whole world.

2. Pleasant people are more likely to eat sweets.

Imagine a pleasant person to talk to. And pay Special attention on those qualities that make this person pleasant in the eyes of other people. Most likely he is kind and helpful. Definitely hilarious. Surely honest and flexible enough to take hits while you yourself get away from a wrestler who has his ass flashed in a drunken stupor. All this is quite consistent with the image of a pleasant person. And perhaps, if you're feeling sentimental, you'll even call it "sweet."

Sweet. It's a pretty ironic word in this context, if you think about it. There is nothing sweet about nice people, unless you suddenly decide to cover them with caramel. And what gave rise to such an association between "sweet" and "pleasant"? Obviously, their daily behavior: it seems that eating sweets can turn a person into an ordinary Good Samaritan.

Let’s make it clear right away that we’re not talking about how a chocolate bar given to a person can cheer him up and thus make him want to do good things (by the way, one study confirmed this fact, although it is quite obvious in itself). Scientists conducted five different studies and found that sweet lovers are more pleasant people and do good deeds more often than those who eat chips during a snack, for example.

And what is most surprising, the participants in the experiment knew in advance what the result would be. In a survey conducted before the start of the experiment, they expressed the idea that lovers of sweets would be more selfless and kind than lovers of salty. Experience only confirmed what people already knew and observed in Everyday life even if it didn't make any sense.

3. If a woman lulls a baby with her right hand, then she is depressed.

The birth of a child is supposed to be the happiest moment in the life of any mother, but according to statistics, one woman in ten suffers from postpartum depression. And, perhaps, this is not surprising, because she really experiences a lot of stress, both physically and psychologically, not to mention the fact that the little peanut constantly yells when she tries to sleep.

So if you suddenly have a friend or relative who has recently given birth, and you want to know how she is feeling, you can either ask her or look at which hand she holds the baby with. No kidding.

Find your baby photos and see which hand your mother uses to lull you to sleep. Or just imagine holding a baby. Which hand will you use? Most likely the left. The vast majority of people use left hand, regardless of whether they are left-handed or right-handed. This is one of those little quirks that are inherent in the human body.

When scientists began to study in more detail this topic, they found that this could serve as a potential way to determine whether a new mother is depressed or not. Stressed and depressed mothers are more likely to lull their babies to sleep right hand than healthy and happy mothers: 14% of happy mothers versus 32% of depressed ones. Although scientists still find it difficult to explain the reason for this.

We mentioned last time that people with wide cheekbones tend to be less trustworthy. It looks like an unfair stereotype, but in fact it's just chemistry - the more testosterone, the bigger face. And the amount of testosterone directly determines the type of your personality.

Also, the classic image of a jock with a can of beer in his hand has already managed to gain a foothold in society: a large, broad-faced guy with an eternal grin and rough features. This type of face can be found in many American youth films. He wears his sports team jacket, sips beer, speaks dumb slang, and bullies the girls at school, making you feel like a loser who will take years to figure out that you really weren't. But in certain situations, this badass-looking guy can actually be quite nice... as long as he thinks you're on the same team as him.

Such people do what they do not because they are cruel. They just have a strong spirit of competition.

To determine this, the researchers divided male volunteers into groups and asked them to play a game of team game. At the same time, some were told that their results would be compared with the results of another school, while others played just for the sake of playing. As a result, guys with the classic "hooligan" faces were more likely to risk their health in order to take first place among the teams ... but only when they were told that they were competing with another school. They were willing to be more altruistic when they thought it would help them win.

Other studies support this theory. As long as the sense of competition is maintained, the bully-faced guy will be more productive, cooperative, and even more willing to sacrifice himself for the team he considers his. And by the way, this extends to higher levels of life: from corporate presidents to presidential candidates, these idiotic, rough and wide features give their owners a strong desire to win, and all because of the amount of testosterone they received in the womb.

If it makes you depressed to think that a person's fate is to such a large extent determined even before they are born... well, we have worse news for you.

5. People with symmetrical features are rich, people with asymmetrical features are leaders.

Science often likes to remind us of the superiority of symmetrical faces, but the reality is even worse: people with symmetrical features not only look better, but they are also likely to be richer than people with asymmetrical features.

On the other hand, the latter have more developed leadership qualities.

Genes, of course, have a considerable influence on this issue, but they are only at the beginning of the path to the formation of facial symmetry. The determining role is played by the conditions of human development. Everything including cigarette smoke children food, socioeconomic status, and illnesses all shape your face, so the easiest way to achieve symmetrical beauty is through wealthy parents.

The results of one study show that people with symmetrical facial features in most cases in childhood lived a privileged life and thus were more likely to become wealthy people themselves.

But, let's say that a person grew up poor and turned into one of the commoners with asymmetrical facial features. He doesn't have a trust fund or a flawless smile, so now he can only rely on his own personal qualities. Moreover, just because this person is not as attractive as Symmetrical, people expect less from him of any achievements in life.

And coincidentally, this is what makes him a more successful leader.

That's right, an endless string of small problems and hardships, which, thanks to an angelic appearance and a thick wallet, will never be experienced by people with symmetrical facial features, make this person a truly effective leader. Of course, this does not mean at all that he automatically becomes Winston Churchill. It just means that he is predestined to become one. Therefore, if you suddenly meet a person with scars on his face in a bar, do not rush to put him at the head of your multinational company.

How to learn something personal about the interlocutor by his appearance

There is a connection between physiology and human nature

Which of us, reading about the adventures of Sherlock Holmes, did not envy his ability to figure out the whole ins and outs of people, paying attention to the smallest details of their appearance? Of course, life is much more complicated than the most sophisticated literary fiction, and even very insightful people are unlikely to be able to achieve the perfection of the great detective created by Arthur Conan Doyle. However, there are some patterns that allow you to determine character traits or health status based on physiological characteristics person.

1. According to statistics, women with wide hips are less scrupulous in choosing partners.

An amazing fact - by the width of a woman's hips, you can estimate how likely it is that your first date will end in sex. This is evidenced by the results of a study conducted by staff at the University of Leeds (UK). The researchers studied several aspects of sexual behavior of female volunteers, including the number of sexual partners and the age at which they lost their virginity, and then checked how these indicators correlated with physical parameters their waists, hips and buttocks. It turned out that the fair sex with wide hips tend to practice "sex without commitment" more often, while women with narrow hips are more prone to long-term relationships and are more careful in choosing partners.

Of course, the objectivity of such a study leaves much to be desired - it is quite possible that the participants simply exaggerated the activity of their sexual life. However, scientists argue that this phenomenon can be explained by biological factors - women with a wide pelvis often have much less problems with the birth of children, so nature itself sets them up for procreation.

2. Sex with obese men tends to last longer.

According to data published in the International Journal of Impotence Research, overweight men are less hasty in sex than slender men. Experts from Turkey studied throughout the year sex life men of different builds, while it turned out that full lovemaking lasts an average of 7 minutes 18 seconds, and thin people more than four times less - about 1 minute 43 seconds.

One of the reasons for this may be the fatigue of obese men, which does not allow them to bring sexual intercourse to its logical conclusion on the first attempt, but there are other factors. At fat people often seen elevated level female hormone(estrogen) in the body, which in some way “slows down” the male body, as a result, ejaculation occurs later. At the same time, it should be noted that men who want to please their partners with long sex should not rush to recruit excess weight since erectile dysfunction is one of the most common side effects obesity.

3. The color of the eyes can be judged on the predisposition to the sport

As you know, in some sports, success is most often achieved by people with certain physical indicators- so, to be a professional basketball player, you need to be taller than average, and let's say, in American football they prefer to take only hard-hitting, strong guys. About future outstanding achievements in sports, less obvious physical features For example, eye color.

The results of several experiments show that people with brown eyes are more likely to succeed in those sports that require a quick response, including tennis, football or boxing. Blue or green eyes, in turn, a sign that a person is more suitable for leisurely sports disciplines that require strategic thinking - say, golf, chess or bowling.

Such a curious effect is explained by physiology - light eyes more sensitive to sunlight, which complicates the processing of visual information and slows down decision making by a fraction of a second. A simple example - a blue-eyed boxer can be confused even by a glare on the referee's watch, as a result of which he will miss a strong blow, while a brown-eyed boxer in his place would not even pay attention to a visual stimulus.

4. Earlobes 'predict' heart attacks

Cardiovascular diseases are one of the main problems of modern mankind. Their development is significantly influenced by factors such as lifestyle, diet and bad habits, however, there is a rather unusual method to immediately determine a person's propensity for a heart attack - pay attention to the shape of his ears.

If there are diagonal folds on the earlobes, which doctors call the “Frank sign”, this is - sure sign predisposition to the development of cardiovascular diseases. It sounds like something from the realm of fantasy, but such folds really make it possible to judge heart problems. In one study of this phenomenon, doctors examined the bodies of more than three hundred patients who died from heart disease, while "Frank's signs" were found in 72% of men and 67% of women. Later, other experts questioned the value of this experiment and set up their own. The researchers took into account factors such as the presence of jewelry in the ears and even the sleeping posture, but they were forced to admit that there is some connection between the wrinkles in the earlobes and heart disease.

While the scientific explanation is so mysterious phenomenon no - experts are at a loss and continue experiments.

Find mutual language with a person - does not mean to fully understand him. How often people are mistaken in thinking that they understand the intentions of other people! It seems that someone looked askance, which means they are plotting something. How do you know how a person treats you? In fact, you need to think less about what impression you make on others - they may not attach any importance to your existence, while you will go crazy with uncertainty.

How to know attitude by look

An experienced psychologist can easily distinguish by the look of a friendly or hostile person, but this knowledge is available to mere mortals as well. If your interlocutor is always gloomy, his laconic phrases in your direction cannot be regarded as bias, but if a usually talkative person closes up at the sight of you, tries to leave the room, hides his eyes, he is hiding something from you.

Most likely this is something you won't like. Because when a person tries to hide sympathy, he prefers to watch the object of interest, albeit secretly, rather than disappear from sight forever. Try to catch his eye by looking your own absent-mindedly to the side, and then looking at him in the blink of an eye. If he followed your gaze, he will not have time to orient himself quickly and his eyes will be directed to the point where you just looked.

His gestures will tell a lot

Few people manage to control their gestures and be completely congruent to any situation. In psychology, this is called internal dissonance. Most often, it is non-verbal signs that convey much more truthful information than words and even a look. If your interlocutor assures you of his friendliness and all kinds of assistance, but at the same time unconsciously shakes his head, tries to cover his mouth, often touches his nose - this person is lying to you.

If a man is not indifferent to some woman, his body literally screams of sympathy: the body turns in her direction, hands themselves lie on the belt, as if correcting it. If a guy is sitting next to a girl he likes, then his legs are widely spaced, as if he wants to wrap them around the object of his desire. And when he wants to please you, his gestures will suddenly begin to repeat yours.

If you are trying to call a person to frankness, but at the same time he has his fingers, arms or legs crossed, you are unlikely to achieve desired result- he will be closed and will not tell you anything. BUT if you offer something, most likely he will immediately leave in refusal.

If you are interested in meeting and chatting with someone, but do not yet know if you like, approach this issue in a friendly way. No commitments, no serious relationship, but just a strong friendship. And from it to love, as you know, just one step.

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The determination of the person who caused the damage is done by simple magical rites. So, you can find out not only the gender of the enemy, but also his name. Do not be surprised if the next day after the ritual, the offender knocks on the door.

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Why know who did the damage

If you have become a victim of a black witchcraft rite, then you need to find out who is providing negative impact. This is no less important than.

• Some want to know their offender for revenge.
• Others - to know the enemy in person and protect themselves from contact with him.

The second reason is the correct one. Take revenge on the sorcerer who managed to bring severe damage is not always logical. This may entail another magical attack from his side. And if the sorcerer has a good magical protection, then all your magic will be reflected from it and come back.

That's why the only reason to know the enemy in person - to protect yourself in every possible way, to break contact with this person and to do away with the influence of this magician.

Ways to determine who cursed

You can find out who caused damage or the evil eye by four categories of rituals:

• Rituals that allow you to see the sorcerer in a dream. In this case, you need to be able to properly tune in to receive information through dreams.
• Appeal to the Higher Powers. If you can correctly address the spirits, and they agree to help, then soon the offender will betray himself, or the spirits will point to the enemy.
• Rites that involve the use of magical attributes and performing special actions with them.
• Rituals in which the main search tool is a sample of the energy of the sorcerer himself. In any case, when magically affected, the magician leaves a little of his material, so his energy can be used for searching.

How to find out who caused damage in a dream

This is one of the most common and easy methods of exposing enemies. It will make it difficult to find out the name of the enemy or common features faces. If everything is done correctly, you will be able to see the full face of your sworn enemy.

Before going to bed, relax, get rid of intrusive thoughts. Do not try to mentally guess the image of the enemy. It will be confusing. Leave all your guesses behind and concentrate on wanting to know who was trying to attack. When you can relax, quietly say:

I walk in rows, I look with my eyes.
Among the bright rows there is Saint Samson.
In the name of God, eternal and living,
I say the holy word
Saint Samson, show me a prophetic dream.
May Saint Samson show me my enemy,
Through a dream, a prophetic face will show it to me.
live and Holy Trinity, help,
Lord Jesus Christ, bless my dream,
In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.
Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

After pronouncing the text, immediately go to bed. Rest assured, at night the image of the offender will appear. In order not to forget anything in the morning, put a notepad and a pen by the bed in advance. As soon as you wake up, do not touch your head (so as not to drive away the memory of the dream) and quickly write down everything you saw.

Appeal to higher powers to identify enemies

You can find out who is really an enemy, and who could cause damage and the evil eye, using both simple and complex methods. The result of the ritual will depend on your capabilities.

Black magic will help you find the enemy

You can determine the person who caused the damage using black magic. This rite is not very complicated, but quite dangerous. Therefore, it is not advised to conduct it for those who are new to the canons of black magic or are just starting their journey in the knowledge of the world of witchcraft.

To perform the ritual, come to the cemetery and find the old nail. It's best to pick it up from someone's grave. But remember, it is undesirable to touch the object with your hands. Therefore, prepare in advance a piece of black matter in which you can wrap the find. Pick up the nail, pick it up and drive it under the door at the entrance to the house. During the action, say the text:

Let my enemy come in three days,
and if he does not come, he will die in six months.
Cemetery, coffin, nail,
waiting for you, invited guest.

The person who performed the witchcraft effect will very soon appear on the threshold, since with the help you can not only call the offender to yourself, but also damage him. If you suspect a specific person and want him to come to you with repentance, then change the text of the spell:

(Name) in three days you will not come - in half a year you will die.
Cemetery, coffin, nail.
I'm waiting for you invited guest.

Help of the dark forces in the capture of the sorcerer

The dark forces that the magician turns to can help to catch the enemy. They can point the victim to the one who dared to send damage or the evil eye on her. Required:

• large capacity full of boiling water;
• 7 rusty keys.

Late in the evening, lower the prepared attribute container with boiling water and exclaim three times:

Whoever wants to bring harm to the servant of God (name), bring the devil to his house. Will not evil person rest, the devil will drive him out of the chambers. Amen.

Deprived of peace, the enemy from the very early morning will already be standing at your door hoping to talk.

Candle - a magical attribute that will open the veil of secrets

Candle wax is often used in magical rites to determine the presence of damage, evil eye, curse and identify who could have so much influence on the fate of the victim. Fill a bowl with water and arm yourself with a wax candle. The use of candles from another material is unacceptable. There will be no effect from the ritual.

A simple way to determine the enemy yourself

The prepared wax should be well heated so that it melts, then pour it into a vessel filled with liquid and repeat the text:

I pour wax into water, I pour out the name of my enemy.

After all the wax is poured out, let it cool down and take a closer look at what happened.

• The moon, flowers, trees - performed a ritual woman.
• Wild animals, geometric figures, predator birds- caused damage the male.

The stronger the damage induced, the more information you can get.

• Often on wax can appear letters, which will symbolize the initials of the one who tried to harm.
• Numbers will indicate how long ago the ritual was performed.

Sometimes the figures can be quite strange, symbolizing the profession of an enemy or his hobby.

How to find out who caused damage with needles and candles

With the help of this ritual, you can tell exactly who is causing damage. It is necessary to purchase several wax candles in the church. One of them must be set on fire, and the other must be broken. Melt the broken piece in a container over the fire of a burning candle.

Pour the hot wax into a bowl filled with liquid. Place the second candle nearby and let it burn out. Take a close look at the resulting image. In rare cases, it completely repeats the image of the sorcerer who caused damage.

If you see an object on wax in front of you, then determine what kind it is. An individual of this sex and made a negative impact. After that, take three sharp objects (you can use needles) and stick them into the image. Sticking each needle, repeat the words:

Point in the water! Water - under the canopy! Who wished evil to the Servant of God (name), he will come to my doorstep! Don't hesitate, show up! Servant of God (name), show yourself! Amen!

The used container is placed near the entrance for the whole night. It is best to cover it with former matter. The next morning, the enemy will make itself felt. He may not come to visit, but he will call or meet on the street.

How to recognize the offender using his energy

The use of such a method is reasonable only if it is possible to recognize different energy material. There are many practices that allow working with bioenergetics. Some of them are pretty easy to master.

First you need to learn how to accurately determine what kind of energy surrounds you. Or rather, whose. The sorcerer must feel the invasion of alien energy into his biofield. In order to master this skill, try to learn to recognize your own energy and distinguish it from someone else's.

It is akin to natural body odor, fingerprint, voice and appearance. All this is unique and individual. The easiest way to get to know yourself better:

• meditating a little every evening;
• relaxing;
• imagining the energy enveloping you in a dense cocoon.

Gradual visualization of the biofield will make it possible to feel it well, to understand its structure, temperature, maybe even color.

When inducing damage, a magical energy strike is sent, which violates the structure of the natural protective cocoon. If you can visualize your protective shell and check its integrity, then soon after the damage is done, you will find a breach in your protection.

Any magical blow is a powerful energy message (in this case, a black magician). The sample of alien energy in the field will be significantly different:

• by color;
• density;
• sensations;
• temperature.

Usually, the affected place (organ) begins to hurt, become inflamed, and on the physical plane it is easy to feel the magical blow. But if you visualize yours again, you can feel the energy of the enemy at the point of impact. Tune in to it, try to catch all its features. Now there is the main evidence for the capture of the ill-wisher.

You will need a stone -

It is impossible to say with absolute certainty that a person really loves you. However, there are many ways to determine a person's true attitude. To do this, you should pay attention to his behavior, words and actions, especially when you are together. And despite the fact that the idea of ​​\u200b\u200breal love is different for each person, it can be distinguished from simple love, interest, or a fleeting hobby. If you want to know true feelings loved one, follow the instructions below.

Steps

How does he behave?

Can a person be himself next to you? To love means to be open to your soul mate. If a person changes, being alone with you, then he loves you. For example, if in public he is serious and courteous, but in private with you he fools around and does stupid things, then he is completely open and loves you.

• If a person shares their deepest emotions and experiences with you, while feeling comfortable, he loves you.
• If a person feels comfortable without pretending to be perfect, relaxes and doesn't care that food is stuck in their teeth, then they don't mind if you see that side of their personality.

1. Is the person happy to see you after a hard day? If a person has had a bad day but perks up when he sees you, that's a sign of love. If the person loves you, the sight of you or the sound of your voice will already make them feel a little better.

   • The next time he's not in the mood, see how he reacts to your presence.

2. Does your loved one look at you with loving eyes? Have you noticed on yourself a blurred look full of adoration? You will immediately understand what it is about, as soon as you see it. Sometimes you may notice this look in the morning, or even casually during lunch.

   • You may also notice that the person is staring at you with the same facial expression.

3. Does the person like to play the fool around you? Love makes a person dumber, more inspired and makes you laugh for no reason. If a person behaves like this in your presence, he is most likely in love.

   • If you said something not very funny, and the person just bursts with laughter, he is devoured by love for you.
   • If the person is nervous or fidgeting, they are most likely excited by your presence.

4. Is a person sad when you are sad? If you are experiencing incredible emotional suffering or simply feeling overwhelmed by illness, this condition should be transferred to the person who loves you. It will soak up negative emotions to make you feel better.

   • While the person doesn't have to feel the same way you do, they will definitely be influenced by your mood.

   What he says?

   1. Does the person talk about your future together as something taken for granted? If a person really loves you, the thought of a joint future will be natural for him, he should not feel uncertain or insecure. If it is in the order of things for him to talk about what you will do in the future, what will your living together in a year, two, ten years, then he really loves you.

      • Real love implies a desire to live forever next to a loved one. If a person does not see his future without you, he definitely loves you.
      • If you are discussing what your children will look like, where you will live in retirement, or where you will go for Honeymoon you have true love.

   2. Does your loved one give you meaningful compliments? Exists big difference between "I love your hair" and "You make me feel better no matter what." It is important that the person tells you that he appreciates you as a person and respects some of your character traits.

      • You don't have to be complimented all the time. Quality matters, not quantity.

   3. When a person says “I love you” to you, does he really mean it? There is a huge difference between "Liu Cha!" I love you too". If a person really loves you, he talks about it, looking into his eyes, his voice sounds sincere and he does not demand anything in return.

      • You don't need a reason to confess your love. He should not do this out of a favor or because in this moment it sounds appropriate.

   4. Is the person really open to you? loving person not afraid to talk about his thoughts, feelings, fears and the like. He'll talk about his childhood, his regrets, difficult periods, dreams, and he will be comfortable sharing it with you.

      • If a person says “I haven’t told this to anyone before ...”, then most likely he really loves you and trusts you.

   5. Does your loved one tell you that he misses you when you are apart? If you are far from each other, but continue to correspond, call up, making it clear that you are missing, then you cannot imagine life without each other. If you left for 3 weeks and did not receive any news, most likely this is not love.

      • A loved one should not call you all the time to say that he misses you.

   6. Does your loved one see your flaws? He should not idealize you. A truly loving person will be able to point out a mistake, an incorrect statement, or indecent behavior to you. However, he should not criticize you all the time. It should be healthy, constructive criticism, meaning that the person knows you inside and out and accepts you with all your strengths and weaknesses.

      • You should be alerted if a person never criticizes you and never argues with you. Make sure the person loves you, not your ideal version.

   7. Does your loved one respect your opinion? If he is interested in yours on a variety of issues, from the assessment of a pair of new shoes to the political situation in the world, then he really loves you. A loving person can ask for your advice or opinion on any subject, even if he already has his own formed opinion.

      • He does not have to ask your opinion about everything - only about the things that are most important to him.

   What is he doing?

   1. Does your loved one listen to everything you say? If a person truly loves you, he will not only be open with you, but he will also listen to what you say to him, even if he has heard about it before. This does not mean that he should act like your dog. It’s just that he will be there so that, without interrupting or being distracted, he will listen to your thoughts and express a reciprocal point of view.

      • To love means not only to speak, but also to be able to listen.

   2. Does a loved one come to your aid at any moment, even at the wrong and inconvenient time? Of course, he is always there for a couple of drinks at the bar or to share Tasty dinner but will he take you to the airport if necessary? Or will he walk your dog when you are sick? A loving person will share with you both joyful and sad moments.

      • If a person is next to you when you are happy, good mood and with a light heart, but disappears when you are sad or depressed, he does not love you.
      • Love is being close to a person, no matter what. A loving person will accept you with all your strengths and weaknesses, as well as share happy and difficult times with you.

   3. Does your loved one do nice things for you? A loving person will fill up your car when you are busy, buy you groceries or cook chicken bouillon if you are sick. He shouldn't be constantly fussing around and overprotecting you, but if he loves you, he'll want to give you a reason to smile or make your life a little easier.

      • True love is the ability not only to take, but also to give in return.
      • If a person truly loves you, they will do these things without asking your permission. This should be taken for granted. If you yourself ask him for help every time, most likely they do not like you.

   4. Does the person always want to be by your side? To love means to always strive to be there, even when it seems impossible. Of course, this does not mean that you should stick to each other, but loving people use every opportunity to be together.

   5. Does the person you love give you enough freedom? A loving person will always give you time to be alone with yourself and go about your business. If a person does not let you go even a step, this is already a blind obsession. In a couple, everyone needs time to do their own thing and be themselves.

      • The desire to be around constantly speaks not about love, but about the fact that a person is not confident in himself.

   6. Does the person really understand you? True love is true understanding. If a person knows how to recognize your mood, knows what you like and what not, and how to please you, then he loves you.

      • It's okay if in part you remain a mystery to a person. You do not need to expect that he understands you 100%, but you must have a strong confidence that the person feels and understands you most time.
      • If a person truly loves you, he will support your goals and interests, even if he is far from them.
   • When someone likes you, the person behaves differently in your presence, looks at you differently, or smiles a lot.
   • Consider other people's feelings. When someone likes you, whatever you do will mean a lot to that person. Be careful.
   • If a person does not talk to you, this does not mean that he does not like you. Maybe he's just shy.
   • Don't confuse flirting with friendship, or you'll get hurt later.
   • It is necessary to give a person freedom, but if you are not at all interested in where, what and with whom he does, you risk losing him.
   • If a friend or boyfriend seems pushy and overprotective of you, it may be because they care about you.

   Warnings

   • A person may try to sacrifice their love if you are no longer interested in them and are already in a relationship or marriage with someone else. However, he will not do this if you constantly feed his hopes.